TTC for 12 months +

Fingers crossed for you ht.
Yep 24 is stupid short. Ov'd day 13 and had 12 LP. Has be averaging 12 days for a whole now. It doesn't normally bother me because it's not like I get utd on my own but timing wise it's just a bit annoying lol. You watch my next cycle will chuck a 31 day-er or something. Which actually would be ok!

I was reading this thread for some time and finally decided to write cause I just needed some support and wise word from people who know what we're going through.
Here is our story - quite a long one to read so can't blame if you can't make it till the end :)) Me and my DH started our TTC journey around Sep 2012. About half a year later we had our 1st appointment (private) with FA where it was suggested that I should have a laparoscopy for ovarian cyst removal and hysteroscopy to check my tubes (this happened in June 2013). They drained out the cyst and results of the hysteroscopy weren't that great - one of the tubes was blocked. On the follow-up appointment we found out that the only possible way for us to have a baby is IVF. 1st cycle (public funded) was scheduled for May 2014. On that appointment they've found that cyst came back and had to have another laparoscopy to remove it. I had it in June 2014 - cyst was removed as well as a little bit of endo. So the IVF cycle was re-scheduled to Oct 14 but it was moved to Jan 15 because of my DH's health issues. After Christmas and NY all was going well and we were quite excited to start our 1st IVF cycle. I won't tell the whole process of IVF cause this is another story)) but the outcome wasn't good. I had BFN at the end. Our doctor suggested that reason for that could be returning cyst (yes, it came back again) as well as endo. So before going with 2nd public funded cycle he advised us to have another op in about 3 month and meanwhile he put me on quite strong hormone treatment for endo. Op was supposed to be in June 2015 but I got flu couple week before that so it was cancelled. They've re-scheduled it for August but than I had a call and they've told that it moved again to Sep. That was quite a devastating news cause it looks like we're playing never ending waiting game and not moving any further.
We're trying to stay positive but this is bloody hard when everything is not going as planned((   So any advice how to cope with the frustration are much appreciated.   Thanks )))

Hi babycrazy. Thanks for your reply.
To focus on something different from ttc kinda works for me as well... but only until I've got news that we can't do some procedures within the planned time frame because something went wrong (and it's not because WE did something wrong)..
but anyway I suppose this is our life unfortunately and we have to take it as it is... sorry for all this mourning     Still trying to stay positive as much as possible

Thanks for advice Storm

I'm in Wellington

Thanks for this info and hint heavenly.talker.
I'm not quite sure why they haven't offered me a trigger option - I might ask the doctor when I see him next time.

Hey Helen, sorry to hear of your frustrating journey so far. It is so hard when it feels you have no control over how things are progressing. Hormone treatment doesn't help the emotions either. I second the suggestion of Pip - maybe you could even email her and ask if she has a welly clinic coming up. - if nothing else it might feel like you're taking some positive action.

Sorry to hear it was another loss storm, that sucks! Good to hear you have a plan to focus on tho.

Hope those follies are growing well Rosey and Mushroom

I'm having a lovely relaxing few days away with hubby, have been pampered with a massage and hot springs today. With me having taken on a big new contract at work and putting our house on the market, TTC has taken a bit of a back seat this month. Think we only BD'd once around ov, so would take a miracle but hey, we can always hope.

Hugs to all x

Sorry for your loss Storm x I hope you can get some answers.

I am clearing out my house before we renovate and just getting rid of surplus stuff, does anyone still use OPKs and want 12 for free that expire 4/16? I am happy to post to you for free.

Just a quick question. I have what appears to be my af only ten days after my m/c and d&c. This seems a little quick? The only reason I am concerned is I am meant to start next tablets for trying with frozen arrives. Is this really ad? Thoughts? Will ring clinic in morning but interested in your thoughts.

Umm does seem strange kiwi. Are your bloods back to zero yet? With mine I got a bleed exactly a month after but my bloods weren't back to zero so don't know Olof was actually AF. From memory it was maybe a bit lighter than normal too.

Very surprised you haven't had more bloods. I had to have them weekly until I got zero. Understand your frustration if it is AF you don't want to have missed it and taking your pills!