TTC for 12 months +

Thanks for asking MoonGlow - holiday was good, but not at rejuvenating as I'd have liked (came home nearly as tired as I went away, and a mouth covered in coldsores). Not really ready to cope with the real world - on top of sorting IVF stuff out, my husbands uncle is about to die, and a cousin of mine has cancer and is going down hill very rapidly, so feel like i'm surrounded with sad stuff at the moment. (so please excuse me if i'm not around much and don't keep up with whats happening for everyone else xo)

Sending you so much love honey xxx

*hugs* Moon*glow - I'm so sorry this didn't work for you :( Hope hubby is bring home some yummies for you to curl up with.

I'm so sorry Moon*glow. It's very sad news.
Storm & Craftea I'll definitely will us them to speed up the process if amh results come before AF
DH is beside himself wanting to contact them and ask why they didn't tell us anything last week   

I am so so sorry Moonglow, I feel gutted for you. Life is just not fair sometimes. Sending you a massive hug x
I am still bleeding but I haven't had any cramps or pain or passed anything other than a consistent flow of light blood which was a little heavier today. I have a gut feeling that this isn't going to end well though. My next bloods are Thursday so I guess I will find out if this is over then.

Oh Moon*glow, I am SO gutted for you.  Hope you have that bottle of wine and chocolates too, lol.  If you didn't get totally spoilt for valentines day yesterday then you definitely need to be spoilt today!!

Garcat, I have everything crossed for you that it's not bad news... have you called your clinic and asked them about it?  Argh what an emotional rollercoaster.

Hugs again Storm.  There's nothing more frustrating than when they can't tell you what's wrong and you feel like you're just doing the same thing over and over with the same result.

Hugs to you too Craftea, sounds like you're having a particularly tough time of it right now.

Kiwi - 7 eggs is still good!  I was gutted I 'only' got 6 but then I ended up with one fresh transfer plus two frosties.

Craftea - my hysterscopy was probably about 2 years ago now. I don't know that it's worth doing again as whatever my issue is has been the issue for the last 4 1/2 years - so well before my hysterscopy. In that time the exact same thing happens and nothing different. Embryo implants or partially implants and releases enough HCG for me to get a +ve HPT but no more than 20 in bloods - then something happens and it doesnt stick.. all within about 5 days I reckon.
I'm not sure if they have done the bloods for miscarriage - I do want to ask him what he has done though as I also wonder if it's worth checking auto immune? It def seems like maybe my embryo's are being attacked when they try to implant. I also did do the colorado protocol during my first IVF - thanks for your suggestions/thoughts into it Craftea - I certainly welcome any ideas!
I feel like there is no point trying the same old thing until they work out what my issue is.

Moon hugs. What is next for you? (if you have even had time to think about it!)

Garcat how are you doing? I too would also be calling the clinic about the bleeding - they may want to send you for bloods sooner than Thursday?

yeah storm i'm not sure about hysteroscopies either - mine was about 4yrs ago and they're suggesting another when we get around to another transfer. unfortunately (having been pretty much where you are) i suspect they'll just keep telling you its a numbers game and keep trying. be interested to know what your DR says with regards to auto immune things...mine reckons theres not much research & doesnt really look into it. Would be worth asking about fluid in your tubes (hydrosalpinx) as if there is that fluid can cause implantation failure, or early miscarriage...its why i had to have both my tubes removed. have they worked out that its not a sperm issue or anything like that? could be worth looking into PGS on your remaining frosties potentially. It seems a bit like the more they know the less they know!

MoonGlow - will they let you use your public funding when you still have an embryo in the freezer? I thought there were some rules around that...

Ah right. I know of someone who has - but they gave the impression that they were an exception to the rule.

Yay kiwi!! Now have a good rest and relax!