TTC for 12 months +

Storm - fingers and toes are firmly crossed for you. xxxx

Hi Everyone
I have been reading this thread for a while, and been a bit shy about joining in.

We have been TTC#2 for a bit over 2 years. Unexplained infertility. A month ago i had a Lap/Hystro and tubes flushed. I was 10 DPO at the time and discovered a few days later that i was pregnant, meaning i was almost certainly pregnant during the procedure.

Roll on a few more weeks and i went for a scan today at 7w3d and discovered the pregnancy is only 6 weeks along so now face a miscarriage (i have a HCG blood test tomorrow to confirm). My FA doctor has reiterated that the miscarriage isn't because of the procedure, but it is hard not to think otherwise.

The whole journey has been hard, but this latest twist has really thrown me.

Its hard to know what comes next now, does anyone know of any stories that could give hope?

Got the most amazing phone call from my mum last night! Her and my dad had been talking and said they will pay for me to get the surgery done privately!
So unbelievable relieved and grateful!
Going to call FA at lunch time to let them know and see if they can let me know how I go about it cos I have no idea!
I have read online that my FA Doctor does specialise in the surgery I need so I'm hoping she can do it for me!

Happy Friday everyone! Hope everyone else is tracking well!

Faith that su**s about the hospital but wow that's great your parents are going to pay for you to get it done privately! Bet that's a huge weight off your shoulders!

Thanks HT - I've actually been full on busy moving today and haven't really rested much since transfer, which I was feeling bad about, but have done some reading and apparently it's not too big of a deal. I'm just hoping I haven't over done it today but oh well, not 100% pregnant yet so trying not to let it worry me. I thought something strange (first thought was AF LOL) last night when I wiped on the loo there was the tiniest line like of blood. That was all so put it down to irritation from the transfer?

Lulu welcome to the forum and I'm so sorry to hear of your miscarriage. I find it interesting the docs even did your lap and hysto that far past OV and not have a blood test. At 10DPO I'm sure there would've been some HCG in your system. While a few of us don't yet have our success stories to tell, there are plenty of ladies that had been here a while and got their miracle BFP so it does happen! Always lots of advice and support here when needed.

Sweetpea enjoy your weekend! I hope AF arrives for you while you're away

Well I got results back just now and my Hcg has risen. So doc is saying I could be 5wks not 7 weeks in which case all hope isn't lost (but it would be a miracle conception given our lack of sex before and after my laprscopy surgery).
The not knowing is killing me... i have another hcg Tuesday and scan in 2 wks.

Lulu, good luck! That would be wonderful news (and also the quickest visit to this forum, ever :) :) :) ) The waiting is brutal though, so hope you have some other things to think about. Father's Day today and some of you will be feeling it extra hard, hugs to you all and hope next year you get to celebrate with your wee one and partners.

I'm 8 weeks today and have our scan tomorrow so only 26 more hours till we get over this next hurdle. People think getting pregnant is where it stops, huh? Without realising that you never stop worrying. My husband and I were talking the other day and saying how we both felt uncomfortable talking about due dates etc, it felt too blase and as if we might anger the gods. Neither of us are particularly superstitious but every conversation starts with "if everything goes to plan..." or "if this works out..." The upside of the constant nausea is that it's a reminder of hormones, I have a friend who just told me she's pregnant and has been symptom-less for 13 weeks, said that when they went for a scan she was convinced there wouldn't be anything there because she felt so great. Hmmmph!

Faith, did they give you any indication of waiting times when you were booked? I hate to say it but in our health system "semi urgent" can mean anything, urgent can often mean in 6-8 weeks. Still, at least your Mum has offered something wonderful and you can get going with things.

Storm, hope you're doing OK and trying not to fall down the mad symptom spotting rabbit hole! x

Hi all. Not much happening here. Finished round 1 of clomid so just waiting to O now. Good luck for the week ahead everyone!

This waiting for AF is doing my head in! I feel myself starting to stress about it starting and us going through a transfer its starting to worry me as well. I wasn't like this for EC month, god i hate this! Just a mix of emotions at the moment, i'm a mess!

Hey Sweetpea

Edited by heavenly.talker - 05 September 2016 at 11:34am

HT, your right i am normally the same. So normally wait till the last minute and it comes later that day or the next. Maybe that's what i need to do It was due on Saturday so i am only a few days over. DH even said to me yesterday, you could be pregnant, it would be funny if you were. Not sure i would use the word funny......
And i have been there too, holding your ground is great at times but when ovulating comes in the window your ground slides away. Good luck!

Haha Storm! One more day would seem like a life time.

Edited by Sweetpea11 - 05 September 2016 at 12:04pm