UTD after fertility issues

Oh it's tricky Cridic....guess perhaps you could just see how you feel on Mon and then on Thurs too. Sounds like you've had great results with your last tests though :)

Baby crazy I need to take a leaf from your book and just chill ;) I'm temping and am thinking I should take the advice of dr google and stop now that I've had FOUR glaringly obvious BFP's. this mornings temp dropped a bit (after a huge freak spike 3days ago - if I kept going like that I'd start to boil ;) so of course I'm panicking that this is a sign of mc again :( If I remove the huge spike 3 days ago my chart looks much more reassuring but I'm thinking its probably time to stop temping.

Thanks Bc, I know you're right. A big thing for me is that my mc was a missed miscarriage so I had no bleeding. The only clue was symptoms disappearing over about 1.5weeks. I know what you mean about symptoms - I have some fleeting moments of nausea and my boobs are sore when I touch them...but I want full on swollen sore boobs and nausea!! First GP visit tues morning so guess its step by step...

BC I've already had 3 BT, so it would be my fourth. My mc was a missed mc also, no cramps, spotting or anything like that.... but I had suspicions due to my levels not rising as much as I would have thought the should. This pregnancy's levels are a lot better, so mane I should just chill and go with it.

Mac I'd definitely stop temping if I were you. I stopped temping when I got my +ve HPT. You'll just go crazy otherwise. How come you've waited for so long to go to your Dr?

I desperately want sore boobs and nausea... at the moment I've just got a heavy feeling in my abdomen and am starting to get slightly tender nipples. I'm 5 weeks today!

BC, I'm curious, in IVF how soon after transfer do you get your BT done? Would you normally be around 12dpo?

So with my embryo transfer they test to detect ovulation then 5 days after put the embryo in and 10 days later do the pregnancy test so I was 15dpo when tested.

Hi all, my first blood test was scheduled 12 days post transfer. My first actual blood test was 9 days after cos I had a bad bleed but it turns out it was positive! Was freaked out till 10 days later when our fourth BT was over 2000 and then heard the heartbeat at 7 weeks on the scan.
Am nearly 8weeks 3 days now and absolutely battered by morning sickness, now have some anti nausea medication that means I can function, but my DH was definitely worried that "the raspberry" wasn't doing OK cos I was feeling better! Meeting the midwife on Wednesday and stop pessaries on Thursday. Yay!!! Then we're only three weeks off 12 weeks and people able to tell people. Hubby wants me to wear this for the family gathering that is fortunately planned for that week

http://www.spreadshirt.com/women-s-pregnancy-announcement-t-shirt-bun-in-the-C3376A13718854/vp/13718854T813A317PC112676621PA1667X27Y190#/detail/13718854T813A317PC112676621PA1667X27Y190


Good luck for tomorrow's test, BC!

yup, my folks know, but not my five brothers and sisters, their partners and their (combined) 14 kids!!! Told a really close friend today - she cried. I was so surprised and touched.

AA that's a big extended family you've got!! Stoked to hear its all going well for you :) BC best of luck for your bloods tomorrow! How long will your results take? Same day? Ill be checking in :) So lovely to share in the excitement with a few of your nearest and dearest :)
AFM, went to the toilet tonight and notice two tiny pin prick drops of blood on the paper. Literally a pin prick and wouldn't have noticed it normally except that I'm scrutinizing every time I go to the toilet! I also had the same thing about 9ish dpo. Am so scared, have been back to the toilet three or so times and now nothing, and nothing internal when I check. I'm not even 100% it came from inside but am so scared. Have had the standard niggly cramps since about 5dpo coming and going at times...hope it's nothing to be concerned about :(

Hey Bc, yep nothing else...I'm a bit confused as to wether it would even be classed as spotting?! I always imagined spotting would be more than that...but so blimmin confusing and worrying!
That's great you can just duck in for your bloods - so exciting :)

Oh yeah .. and Auntie that's a great t-shirt.

Not sure how we'll tell our families. I'm actually going to be visiting my parents in Napier the weekend I'll be 12 weeks .. but we probably won't have had all the results from our nuchal scan by then.. so thinking I may hold off telling them until I'm 14 weeks and that will be my mum's birthday. :-) Will be hard spending the whole weekend with them though and not saying anything.

Regarding DH's mum, I think we'll buy a little onsie with Grandma on it and give it to her.