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EthansMummy
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Topic: Breast and Bottle Posted: 20 March 2006 at 3:13pm |
I am not trying to start a debate or war  i would like opinions.
I am going to (if possible) feed my baby breast at home or most of the time and bottle when we are out.
Has anyone done this and could give me advise, does it work ?
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 3:18pm |
im gonna do that to Linelle. Half and half. Be easier I reckon . be good to hear opinions
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EthansMummy
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 3:22pm |
Yea, i don't really want to be having to breatfeed when we are out (which is quite a bit) but i would like to give breatfeeding a go as well
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 3:30pm |
Asked out of pure curiosity: why don't you want to breastfeed while out?
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 3:37pm |
i wouldn't make any hard and fast decisions until after you have the baby. It's easy to decide what to do now, and then change your mind completely later. on that note, i feed both breast and botle and have no problems
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 3:38pm |
Umm, just a personal thing. I would prefer to be able to sit in a room and continue to talk to people while feeding but if breatfeeding i am not the sort of person who would be comfortable doing that. I understand that you would be able to if you were breatfeeing but it's out of my comfort zone. And i also feel it would let my partner feel more invovled as he can't really put my breast on and feed the baby.
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 3:40pm |
Oh, okay, fair enough... I was just wondering.
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 3:44pm |
yeah I feel a bit like that too Linelles. If I had to breast feed while out in public id have to go to a proper mothers room or whatever you call them, near the public toilets. At least with breast and bottle feeding combined baby would get the nutrients that he/she needs as well as partner being able to be more involved with feedings and when out can bottle feed.
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 4:05pm |
I'd like baby to be able to take the bottle occasionaly but I believe that in the end it can be up to baby as to what they will accept. Hopefully people have some tips for helping bubs accept a bottle.
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 4:53pm |
Hi ya,
I too was very nervous about the though of breastfeeding in public, but after giving birth I am not too shy about my boobs anymore! LOL. It is totally personal choice lovey, you have to be comfortable with breastfeeding, so do whatever you feel at ease with. One point to note though about bottle feeding is that a breastpump is not as efficient at keeping your milk supply up as a baby suckling so you might want to bear that in mind when you are thinking about how many bottle feeds a day you are going to slot in. I was also told by birthcare not to bottle feed for the first 6 weeks so that your milk supply has a chance to settle into what baby needs. It is also easier for baby to get milk from a bottle than it is from the boob and some babies will start refusing the breast. I had no trouble with my wee man, he took food however he could get it but my friend had real trouble keeping her milk supply up when the baby started refusing the breast.
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 5:19pm |
i just wanted to say that I too was really uncomfortable with breastfeeding in public before having Joey and it took me a little while to get used to it after he was born too but now it's no problem at all!! As a b/f mum it seems easier to me to have the breast there when Joey is hungry instead of having to faff about with a bottle, heating it etc. also no messy cleaning and sterilizing  That said, i fully understand and support whatever you girls decide to do!
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 5:36pm |
i did both with caitlyn-and i found it worked out fine, it was also good cos she got used to a bottle very early on so when i decided to wean her at 14months i didnt have any hassles getting her on to a bottle
your the one that will be responsible for feeding her so just do what ur comfortable with chicky
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 6:08pm |
I fully breast fed... the only reason is that I was far too lazy to bottle feed! hehehehehe
I think the idea of getting your hubby more involved is lovely. They do often feel very left out and it might be nice. I know when Hannah was weaned, both my boyfriend and my sister's boyfriend loved snuggling up with her while she drank. Only way they could hold her and she wouldn't squiggle away!
I'd like to see what you do end up doing... would be interesting to see if you end up like the rest of us, where we left our humility in the maternity ward!
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 7:45pm |
I have to agree with the other girls here.. I was determined I was going to breastfeed, and did.. but felt a bit shy about the idea of breastfeeding in public.. oh man, if only you knew how all of your modesty flies out the window once you give birth  I breastfed everywhere, it was my right lol and I was not going to starve my baby because someone else had a problem with it! I even fed infront of my partner's workmates, they were all guys back then lol
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 8:54pm |
i think its all personalchoise i b/f james only for 2 days then expressed then bottle/formual and i badly wanted to b/f i have been told to interduce bottle to baby early so they get use to it outherwise they can go on stike i was lucky and james would take a feed with what ever was infront of him good luck
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Posted: 20 March 2006 at 11:04pm |
Living in Saudi there is no way I can breastfeed in public and they don't provide any rooms where you can go and breastfeed so if we're out I take a bottle of expressed milk for Zac and it works fine. Just remember though to introduce the bottle after 6 weeks I think it is as some babies won't take the bottle if you leave it too long.
And I also bought a breastfeeding t-shirt off the breastmates website which is great as there is a flap for you to put your breast through so you don't have to lift the t-shirt and expose your tummy or back and you can't see your breast...it's great when you have visitors and don't want to leave the room to feed.
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Posted: 21 March 2006 at 7:14am |
I fully breasfed Maya till 10 mth, never hada prob with the feding in public thing, but I would have liked to be able to give her a bottle when she started daycare at 5 mths instead of having to rush over and feed her in my breaks.
Somy only advice is that if you are going to do both, start early. I was told not to offer a bottle till after 6 weeks to make sure feeding was well established, but by then it was toolate - Maya was far too comfortable breastfeeding to show any interest at all in the bottle.
So with this bub I will be starting a bottle a day frm day dot.
Also, with bottle feeding when you're out, bear inmind that you will have to find somewhere to mix/heat bottles etc. which can be a bit tricky.When I put Maya on the bottle I remeber asking McDonalds to stick it in their microwave and they wouldn't do it, apparently against their policy, so I had to heat it in a cup of boiling water which took much longer.
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Posted: 21 March 2006 at 7:50am |
Someone (janine maybe) gave geat advice abour wearing boob tubes under your t-shirts. You can lift t-shirt up and pull boob tube down and hey preseto, no exposed baby belly!! I must admit, I don't like breastfeeding in public very much. I';m fine in the park when people have no idea what is going on, but in a restaurant...hmmm, not sure.
Went to a party with my dad when Jake was a baby and I started to breastfeed him. Dad made a huge deal of "shielding" me. If he'd shut up and let me get on with it, no one would've noticed, course everyone looks at the man acting as a human barrier though.....idiot!
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Posted: 21 March 2006 at 7:51am |
Just to reiterate though, this is YOUR decision and don't let anyone ltell you what to do...as they will! the breast bottle debate is so controversial and it really should'nt be. If you want to breastfeed, you should be able to. If you want to bottle feed, you should be able to - end of story.
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Posted: 21 March 2006 at 8:21am |
 I totally agree Liz!!
LOL about your dad, hehehehe, gotta love em, hehehehe
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