Charting - TTC after recent MC

It makes sense to make sure the car is practical! Its not like putting your life on hold or anything, just making room for a baby in your life in the future Dont feel guilty, and dont tell yourself off, its totally normal and its not 'wrong'.

Hmm will be in Auck for the day on the 1st Oct (a friday), and maybe the saturday. We are taking a road trip up to see family in Whangarei but have an appointment for my green card on the friday so will be in auck on the 1st on our way to the coromandle for the next week. But thats not far from the 21st of sept so you might not be in town anyway!

Oh cool! Emmi if I don't get a BFP this month can I buy it from you? If you don't want to keep it that is for next time around
One question on it, is the test stick reusable or do you have to buy new ones all the time?

Well it we don't make it for a coffee in october I will be in Welly for Christmas and we will have our car with us so I take you out for coffee then instead I'll be there from 24th-27th, possibly a few days earlier even. I'm sure we can suss something out. I'll PM you my cellphone so if I do end up in Welly soon and time on my hands I can text you to see if you're free

Popping in here also to say hi, have been lurking but not up to much still yet.

\Interested in the aspirin debate, am considering trying this next time round. Google frenzy yesterday seems to suggest 81mg is the low-dose’ ness but I see there’s different amounts .

Bobsta, I recognise that feeling too, from last time, but it completely conflicted at the time with the fear of going through mc again. Complete opposite feelings at the same time, yeah I’d sit and look at my bfp temps as if that holds some magic secret info! I also wonder if, last year, it was some kind of immediate automatic feeling to wanting to be ‘not empty’ again. But that was quite soon post mc, and its been a few months for you, so maybe not?
I think cos everything has dragged out this time, being preggy seems like something distant now, it does stick round every thought but seems less real.
Forward planning can’t be bad though (re the car thing?). I guess its part of contemplating the future, and is a good thing to do. Although I like to err on the side of reverse psychology (if I plan or buy something that is completely incompatible with new baby, then you can guarantee bfp will be soon) but don’t let that sway you!

Will be interested to know how you get on with PsychK didi. Never heard of it, but sounds interesting . . .

Glad you are feeling more like your old self Mrsh, yay for shopping, I treated myself to a facial and a massage a couple of weeks ago it was fantastic.
FX for June babies for us all.
spanky psych-K was great really uncovered alot of things I wasn't conciously aware of, but do make sense when I think about them, will definately be going back.
Something else my naturopath has me doing, not sure if anyone else wants to try it, it's kind of funny. But I have to lay or sit quitely somewhere close my eyes and mentally go into my womb and decorate it for the new baby to be (i.e. sweep it out, put curtains up, paint it, pictures etc) then around ov time I have to put a welcome mat out. A bit strange I know but I think sometimes the mind is a powerful tool.

Oooooh I like the idea of 'decorating' my womb! I strongly believe in the power of the mind etc, it has to be a good thing. I have a good feeling about this cycle coming up, will try and cut back on the vino, up the exercise and eat nice and healthy. I also have yoga starting on Oct 7th so that will be good for me too. Nice to feel in control of things again
I am tempted to see a naturopath as well Didi....but will see how things go over the next few months.
I am addicted to temping a bit Spanky.....but ho hum.....nice to have a break every now and then.
Fingers crossed for us all to have June babies

I love the idea of womb decorating Imagine going into to mitre10 and telling a sales person you need a welcome mat to put in your womb, LMAO!
It's a really goo way to thing about things in a good positive way.

Didi I'm so glad the psychK is working out for you!

Sorry about AF MrsH
Great to hear that you've had a tear free day though and Im sure a bit of retail therapy to will help put a smile on for you too.

Well I saw my naturopath today and she's super stoked with my progress but really wants me to do a detox now which means I can't TTC while I do that. Poos.
So I told her after the 2WW I will start it. Overall it's best for me and bubs to be a stong as possible so I will put of TTC while I detox. Bad news is though I can't do a 1 month pill based detox as I can't digest pills so I have to do a 2 month liquid based one instead. Hmm, 2 months of not TTC!? Crap.

Oh crap bobsta, it is so hard waiting when you just want to get on with it, hugs hun. I know how frustrating it is so feel free to vent if you need it.

Oh and sorry spanky I forgot to say in my last post they don't hypnotise you in pshyic-K, they do what they call muscle testing. Basicly you hold your arm out and say a statement then she pushes your arm slightly if it holds steady then you suconciously think it is true, if it drops then it's not.

Fantastic News Tink!!!!!!
Completely understand it will be a long 12 weeks but I have everything crossed for a happy healthy pregnancy for you.

I just popped in to have a wee read (not realising that I'd clicked on the wrong forum, thought I'd clicked the one below, sorry for gatecrashing!!) and OMG TINK thats freaking awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So much sticky dust and lots of safe, healthy, happy pregnancy thoughts/prayers heading your way!


Edited to explain about the wrong click.

Edited by MrsMJD

Whoops, spoke too soon! Back to CD 1 for me