So I hate work and feel bullied! Big RANT

Wow I hate work I have been back also two weeks and just can't stand it.

First week the office manager had the temp stay on to sit with me to show me what to do!!!!! This week has been a nightmare poor bubs got a bug and I have been home most of the week - I don't think this has got down well. I went in last night to do some work and I got asked why I was there, I asked the boss if he had a problem and he said it was fine. Well somebody else had interred with my job and I recopied two pages of something and put it out again - oh my god. So the OM said to me today when I finally got to work this afternoon that they will keep a record of when I am away and go from there that I'm not to come in again at night and do work as it is a waste of time and I am just doubling up (my role is very separate from others and nobody is doing it). I got questionned what I did - so I had to list the things I had done!!!! She has no clue what I do and the other main job in the office is the only job that needs to get done! Pity the poor girl can't do the job by herself. The OM isn't the best with computers so she forwards me things she should be doing cause she can't work them out and do them herself.

A couple of times now I have talked to the boss and the OM has gone behind my back so the plans that I have put in place with the boss get changed it is so frustrating. I can't even have a phone conversion with others in the building without getting questionned. The temp and them changed things and they don't work but I am strictly not allowed to change and go back to my way - in my job image is everything and some things they have done just don't work.

Something happened with a programme today and it affects me and the other girl set about fixing it but hasn't filled me in on when it was all about - and I couldn't be bothered asking it is just rude.

So how do I handle this

the butting in of phone calls

the not allowed to go in after hours (like I should really care - but hubby is self employed and can't stay home)

the interring of plans I make with others

the interring of what I am doing in my JOB

them leaving the room to whisper about me (and they do)

then checking up what I have been doing on my computer

DO I tackle the boss and what do I say to the other 2 in the office as I am really sick of it - I have been there longer than them (they started at the same time and a CLOSE) I have just finished six months away but I just want out but have no other options at the moment.

I feel like they are trying to push me out.

This is how pathetic they are I just got a new car and they went out and looked and them came in and asked why I changed and that I must be getting paid a lot as how could I afford to run it!!!!

So what do I do .......

Aww hugs hun, very awful being in a situation like that. I agree Susiec about documenting everything that is happening. I would also take some time out to have a chat with your boss about it then when enough is enough and if it doesnt get better I would slap a personal grievence on them. This is the sort of action that will have them all running for cover....pretty hard to do though once you have covered all your bases like documenting incidents, speaking to the boss etc, they wont have anywhere to run for cover. I totally understand how you are feeling as I had this happen to me right down to the checking what I had did on the computer, checking my appointment times in my work diary etc. All you need to keep in the back of your mind is you are building a great case against them and they are only like this because they are either threatened or jealous of you......infact probably both so hold ya head up high and smile. They will get theirs... Karma gets them everytime

oh that sounds like a horrible work place!!

All i can say is "karma is a B***H!!" they will get theres!

It must be hard .. going back to work, then having a sick bubba!

I can kind of see where your boss (and co workers) are coming from, it must be a PITA to have someone away alot, just when they start back .. and I understand about the lunch breaks .. if my admin person isnt in the office, then I pretty much dont get lunch as someone has to be there .. so that would be me lol

In saying that .. if I wasnt happy with my working situation I would move on ... only because I my job and I work in such a fantastic environment and they literally work around me and my new role as a Mum, and I think everyone should have that