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Chovynz
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Topic: Teresa Posted: 22 March 2007 at 8:42am |
I find it strange that I'm reading up on Oh Baby and I learn a few things about Teresa (my wife for those who haven't got it yet.) It's...odd.
Like how concerned she is with Bub#3. Or the cycle. I don't really know alot of that cycle stuff anyway, and sometimes times it's TMI!! but I'm learning about her all the time.
One of my goals is to learn how she works, so I can treat her better. I'm in it for life, so I might as well learn what makes her tick and what makes her happy.
Because I'm a working dad (and a guy), I'm not as aware of what the girls (DW + 3) are going through. I find it difficult to find the words for what's inside. Plus guys and girls think so differently, so I'm thinking "whatever doesn't kill my girls, makes them stronger," etc. (Just a note: that doesn't mean any sort of abuse, I'm just talking about sickness and accidents.)
That and I'm still struggling with the difference between my bachelor life and married life then married with kids...And I'm sstill very selfish.
While I'm writing this I've got #3 on my chest and I can finally hear the wheezy chest that Teresa was talking about.
Teresa, when you read this, I love you lots and think your doing an awesome job at being a mum and wife. You're amazing and you just keep going. You enrich my life in ways that I don't even have words for at the moment, but I know I'd rather be with you than anyone else. Thank you, from the top of my heart.
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 8:45am |
Aww thats so sweet i wish my husband was so accomdating for these kinda sites lol
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 8:46am |
sniffle sniffle.
your so sweet maybe i should get dh to start on this site so he can appreciate me more.
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 8:52am |
Jezsika wrote:
Aww thats so sweet i wish my husband was so accomdating for these kinda sites lol |
Trust me, it's not easy for a guy to say that stuff about his partner. I've learned to not care about what people think of me, and I might be more in touch with my feeling side, so it's probably easier for me than some guys.
I am a guy guy, just I know how to feel and learning how to say. Anyway this topic is about Teresa. :)
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:06am |
Tee hee I wondered what you were up to in here, all hush-hush! Thanks Babe  And you better have meant does n't in your post but I'm not going to tell you where!
It sure is nice to be able to "spill" on here with a whole lot of you ladies who understand women and mothering and all the TMIs lol
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:21am |
Awww...that made me all teary eyed...sniffle....I wish my husband would say things like this!!
When I ask him do you love me babe...answer: ofcourse I do...why?
Arrggg
Welldone to you, for opening up about your wonderful wife!!
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:28am |
LOL Roksana or its yeh why? lol
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:29am |
Honey I just feel that I must add...
This does not get you out of talking (every woman's favourite pastime  )
and...
I still want your help tidying the garage this morning!
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:35am |
Lol Teresa...he cant win....can he??
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:37am |
Roksana I love him to pieces really!  I just wanted to make sure he knew that one nice compliment doesn't get him out of anything... and it's a bit of fun too
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:38am |
tee hee I bet him
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:40am |
... Well I'll just have to up the ante then..
Insert soppy romantic lovely kind nice set of 15 paragraphs to make Teresa feel all warm and cuddly and soft inside.
(Btw I know we've gotten a little silly with this part but my first post was genuine)
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:48am |
Awww .. so lovely to read your post! And also nice to have a bloke on here - honestly, I'm sure you'll realise soon, if you don't already, why we all come here - advice, get things off our chest etc.
Welcome!
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 9:54am |
BSDH are you reading this you grumpy old toad, yes he who rushed off to work grumping at me the whole time!!! BSDH take note of Chovnz!!!
Chovnz....a lovely post! Theresa is lucky to have you by her side..and amazing how the both of u can type with bubs in arms now...LOL!!!
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 10:00am |
Oh Ro...you learn quickly to type with one hand dont you....he he ha ha I know I did!!
I feel like superwoman some times with Zaara in one arm and with other I am cooking, tidying up, even washing dishes!! Woo hoo....better get back to work!
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 10:27am |
Wow - Theresa you are a very lucky lady...(I am sure HE is pretty lucky too!!)
Its refreshing to see a man that isnt afraid to 'talk' about his emotions and feelings especially in such a 'public' way.
Well done Chovnz! When can I send my husband around for his lesson?
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 12:17pm |
Ladies Ladies, one thing you must learn about men is they cannot be taught like that. No guy will take advice from me unless they want to. I wouldn't teach them a lessen like that anyway  There yah go. Unwritten Male secret #3400589-a free of charge.
LOOK WHAT TERESA MADE ME!!!!
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Passionfruit Yoghurt
Choc chips sprinkled

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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 12:22pm |
Gosh I wish you did give lessons, it would sure as hell make my life a whole lot easier.
Well done for having the gumption to come on here and tell your lovely lady how you feel.  .
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Chovynz
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Posted: 22 March 2007 at 12:27pm |
I can always educate women on how to treat men, and how they think  .
That is... in between the pummelings I'd get for disclosing all the male secrets.
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