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DaFarmer
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Topic: What cold be wrong Posted: 11 April 2011 at 5:55pm |
Okay so Me and the other half have been together for over 4yrs now and never used protection, and i'm not pregnant. Should this be worrying
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troutpout
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Posted: 11 April 2011 at 7:01pm |
Not necessarily, have you ever tracked your cycle to pinpoint when you ovulate? But if you're worried, go see your doctor and get yourselves checked out, you can at least put your mind at rest xx
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miss_freckles
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Posted: 11 April 2011 at 8:05pm |
I'm 35 and had to read a book and chart cycles to figure out how to get pregnant. Was very well educated on how not to get pregnant - haha. Its actually a tiny window in which to make it happen. We were pregnant on 3rd month of really trying :) i charted through fertility friend website and the first discovery was that i dont have the standard 14/ 28 day cycle. Once i figured out the cycle etc it seemed almost too easy - we were shocked to be pregnant so soon as we'd thought we were having trouble too. Now we're nearly 20 weeks :)
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AandCsmum
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Posted: 11 April 2011 at 8:56pm |
I went off the pill when there was all the scares about deep vein thrombosis, and we didn't get pregnant for years, I was a little clued in & we usually used protection in the "window"
I would only be worried if you have been specifically trying & not getting preg.
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Hopes
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Posted: 11 April 2011 at 9:29pm |
Well, in my opinion it kinda depends. Rather a personal question, but how often do you have sex on average? If you were doing the deed a couple of times a week, yea, I reckon it would be worth getting checked out. If it was more of a once-a-month thing, it could just be that your timing has been out.
Also, are your cycles regular? If they're not, that's another sign that something might not be quite right.
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lisa85
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Posted: 13 April 2011 at 8:50am |
I agree with hopes the best course of action would be to speak to a doctor.
I hear great things about preseed lube as well. I have heard a few ladies say they were TTC for a while then used preseed (while charting) and got preggers really quickly.
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