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mum2three 
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 3:44pm |
OK this is more are a vent then anything else.
I don't know what to no any more, Jorja has been really unsettled today again and we didnt have a very good night. The boys are diving me mad! I say don't do that and what do they do, what i told tham not to do!!!!!!  Hubby's had to go in to the office to finsh some work as it was to noisy here 
so I'm home alone and its finally dawned on me that the honeymoon period is well and truely over! For the past few days i have been feeling like my PND is coming back and that my babys deserve a better mother 
Sorry for dumping this on you wonderfull ladies i just have know one else to talk
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nikkitheknitter
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 4:05pm |
Get someone around quick to help ya... do you qualify for assistance still???
I can not in my life imagine what it must take to deal with triplets and a newborn - you are an absolute legend for making it with the first three!!
Anyway, call in favours and get someone round to help ya... don't be afraid to ask for help - everyone needs some sometimes.
And perhaps talk to your GP or midwife about the PND feelings. Better to sort it in the early stages.
 Wish I could provide something a bit more practical than a message over the internet.
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 4:22pm |
Oh hun! Like Nikki said, you are a legend!! Getting someone to come and help is a good idea, or is there anyone that would take the boys out for a while so that you and Jorja can have some quiet time alone?
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 4:54pm |
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I agree, have a quick ring around and see if there is anyone who can come over for a wee while so you can have some quiet time.
Sorry to hear Jorja has been unsettled, hopefully it's just one of those days and things will come right very soon for you.
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 8:09pm |
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triplets and a newborn!!!!!! you are my idol!!!! i dont know how I am going to cope with 1. Wow, I think whatever you do will be amazing. Hang in there.
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 9:17pm |
I think it best to get someone to help you.
Big coming your way.
You babies deserve you! You are their creater
Maybe check with your Gp about the PND thoughts before it becomes.
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 9:58pm |
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Do you live in Auckland.
If you really needed someone to come and give you some peace so you could put your feet up I could come and give your newborn a cuddle or watch her while my granddaughter is at Kindy but once she goes to school o the 11th of June I could come school hours for a reduced payment.
I have trained as a karitane and Nanny
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Do you live in Auckland.
If you really needed someone to come and give you some peace so you could put your feet up I could come and give your newborn a cuddle or watch her while my granddaughter is at Kindy but once she goes to school o the 11th of June I could come school hours for a reduced payment.
I have trained as a karitane and Nanny
I live in howick
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 10:02pm |
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i so dont know how u do it with the tripets and a new baby....i hope you qualify for some help....four kiddies under 4 cant be easy...
im not sure where you live but if we can be of any help let us know...i think u were in akld....Im sure there are plenty of us on here willing to lend a hand...
and I know where you are coming from...my head was in that place til week 5....I hope it doesnt go as far as PND and is just bad blues kicking in...but please ask for some help and take it ok...and man do you deserve it you little legend
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Posted: 12 May 2007 at 11:00pm |
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send the boys outside...theres something in the air lately making them all go crazy and restless...
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Posted: 13 May 2007 at 10:19am |
Oooohhhh gandt... that explains why the husband has been a pain in the a*se lately! 
mum2three. Bombshell's right ...there are plenty of us here who would be happy to help you however we can.
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Posted: 13 May 2007 at 1:10pm |
big hugs isobella, pity i dont live up your way or id come and help.
im sure you should qualify for some type of help with the boys and jorja??
and your a fab mum so don't ever doubt that, maybe have a wee chat to your GP and let them know how your feeling.
feel free to message me on msn if you need to vent and let something off your chest :)
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Posted: 13 May 2007 at 7:16pm |
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Hugs Isobella.
Do you have much to do with your local MBC? I've found ours to be a great support, I go to playgroup once a week - even tho the gremlins are too small to appreciate it it's nice to get out and go somewhere where my kids are normal instead of a freak show, and where all the other mums know exactly what its like.
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Posted: 13 May 2007 at 7:44pm |
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How are you doing now Isobella? Is Jorja a bit more settled or is she an unsettled baby overall? I'm betting the boys are wondering what has hit them, with you first in hospital and now back but occupied with a baby. Hopefully things will settle down for them soon. Sorry not much help but all I can say is hang in there, you're in the tough part and it will pass soon.
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