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faewie 
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 10:13pm |
Hey there team,
Im a bit worried, Im a mess sometimes, I get snappy at my partner over stupid ridiculous things,,, Ive always been firey but over the last month ive been nutz. Im really worried about what i may be like further along in my pregnancy, im only 15wks! my poor boy puts up with my crap but its not fair, i get into a state and cant get out of it. I dont do anything i just say horrid stuff. maybe i need help, golly i dont know
MUH!
thanx for listening 
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newmum
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 10:20pm |
It gets better... and then worse again, hee hee hee, just the pregnancy hormones sweetie!!  
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 10:31pm |
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Sorry, but Ana's right! I just told Nathaniel it was his fault for knocking me up... we'd laugh, and then the moment had passed!
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Posted: 26 October 2005 at 10:52pm |
damn hormones! lol
when i was away last week i asked tim what he was getting up to after work and he said he was gunna catch up with a friend of ours who is a girl and like a dang sister but i got insanely jealous i just could not believe how jealous i was it surprised me! but i told him exactly how i felt and why, i could recognise it see, then the feeling went away then i laughed at myself for being such an egg!
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 1:04am |
i think 2e've all been there! I dropped two eggs and lewis' made a joke. I yelled at him and then cried in the toilet..... 
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 8:14am |
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I know excatly how you feel, in the past week my husband has begun to wonder where has his normally calm and rational wife has gone and who is this stroppy women who burst into tears at the slightest raised voice or soppy thing on tv and of course there has been the snapping his head off everytime he looked at me the wrong way.
Our poor husbands/partners really do have to put up with a lot from us, my husband actually said to me he thought when i got pregnant that he would have nine months of me being PMS free....boy did i laugh.
So dont worry about it, it does go, just give your lovely partner a hug and tell him you love him and all will be well.
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 8:14am |
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The first trimester I was a total mess, and I mean total mess. I thought I was going to loose it completly, but around 15 weeks things improved. I think it's around then the placenta takes over making alot of the hormones. I still have moments but it's not too bad
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 8:49am |
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I'm so with you guys on this! I've been a blubbering, growly, over sensitive mess these last two months! Everything makes me cry! I've even done the whole get jealous and suspicious thing when Jono has been late home from work.... "where were you, who were you with, there were GIRLS there?????" What a munter! It's getting a bit better, but he still has moments when I catch him looking at me like "who on earth are you????"!!
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 8:54am |
I'm the same! Usually I'm not a snappy person at all but in the past week or two I've been what I believe is a nightmare to live with. I'll be happy one minute then crying the next. Last night I had a craving for a choc sundae and was soo sore I just decided to go without, then Josh said he would go and get me one, I snapped at him and told him not too and ended up crying because I felt guilty that he had to go out of his way for me. Anyway he kissed me goodbye and went to get one while I was shouting and crying for him not to go. By the time he got back I had calmed down and apologised a lot but I still don't know how he can put up with me sometimes!
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 10:26am |
hee hee hee hee to tell you the truth I am like that sometiomes now still!! I think it is the tiredness, when it just gets too much I kinda flip out!! 
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 11:52am |
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I can't imagine you being like that Ana! You are too sweet!!! Lucky your hubby adores you huh?
I remember being a completely intolerant nasty flatmate to my house buddy. It sucks because he was the best flatmate in the world but I was so damn irritable!!! Made a lot of sense when I finally discovered I was pregnant! (It kinda scares me how much I ignored all my pregnancy symptoms. Ahh so naive!)
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 12:17pm |
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Haha! It seems that we've all been there... I was HORRID while pregnant, I used to cry during the evening news (andy wouldn't let me watch it after a while) and growl at shop attendants who tried to talk to me, and poor Andy, I am surprised he stuck around at all!!
The BEST thing ever is evening primrose oil, i still take it now to 'regulate hormonal imbalances'... It is fab! Calmed me right down! Get some from the pharmacy!!
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 12:27pm |
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I'm so getting some of that!! Funny you mention about crying during the news - I've been howling at any mention of anything to do with the earthquakes, the gang wars in South Auckland, anything at all really! And GRUMPY!! I pity the person who has to deal with me when in one of my moods.... not lovely! I'm normally pretty cruisy so it's funny to see friends faces when I get psycho over the butter being on the wrong shelf or some such major issue!!!
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 1:15pm |
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We just moved and my cat disappeared for a day and i spent the whole day crying he came back and then i cried some more cos i was so happy
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 1:22pm |
Count me in, Im so grumpy and growly and negative I am sick of hearing myself groan and moan. I always snap at my husband and my 11 year old. I feel really terrible afterwards but it just seems to fall out of my mouth. I was so upset the other day I said the f word to my husband without realizing my soon to be 3 year old was standing there. We had just finished telling her the week before that we dont say those kind of words after she came home from daycare saying it. I nearly died when I heard her say to her daddy, 'what did mummy say??" I am usually such a calm and happy person that even im getting sick of myself. 
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 5:27pm |
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The best was when I would get so mad at Andy that I'd yell at him and start crying, then twenty minutes later i would feel so bad for yelling at him that I would cry again 'cause i had been so mean! The poor man was baffled!
I really think I cried for about eight months of my nine month pregnancy...
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 7:35pm |
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 7:47pm |
My funniest hormonal problem was that I couldn't watch Blues Clues with Kiya - it made me cry! 
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Posted: 27 October 2005 at 11:33pm |
lol, i cried watching blues clues this morning (i love it lol i bought myself a plush blue toy ) and steve was going off to college, it was so sad! i love steve! lol
Its nice to know that im normal! lol. Our poor partners though! they put up with alot of cwrap from us... aw thats beautiful. lol, thats LURVE
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Posted: 28 October 2005 at 8:09am |
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The first time I saw that one with Steve going off to college, I bawled and bawled. Kiya was looking at me funny, so I had to pull myself together. Here I am, a grown woman, crying over a kids tv show and my then 3yo was laughing at me!
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