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Glow 
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 8:53am |
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Just thinking about things to do Daily with Children that can be developed into rituals or good habits. Then weekly, monthly & yearly. At this stage we have daily chores chart (of course-) And Certain days of the week we do special things. Im trying to devise a longer term plan. Does anyone do Halloween (or Samhain) etc & enjoy the same activities together religiously?
Oh yea we also do friday night fish n chip night(naughty eating habits i know!!)  
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lizzle
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 9:27am |
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sunday night is one of the only nights that hubby is home for tea, so we always have a nice tea, dessert and watch the zoo together. about al i can think of right now.
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 10:24am |
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we dont have any except hubbys family always insist on having everyone over for xmas a week early cause they go away for actual xmas.
otherwise bed time is our most formal/ritualised part of the day. even gabriel can tell you what comes next after dinner etc.
I dont do halloween and dont want to encourage it with the kids but they are a bit young yet anyway and at the mo we play things like easter and birthdays by ear too.
sorry not much help at all was i?!
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 10:29am |
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We have some:
Friday night is takeaway night.
Saturday night is roast night.
Groceries are done every Saturday morning, and we get Bakers Delight for either a late breakfast or early lunch.
Sunday we stay in our pj's and have a cooked breakfast and watch the Home and Away Omnibus, once that's finished we get showered and start our day. Sunday nights the kids have baths or showers ready for school the next day.
Every second Sunday we go to my parents for "pink cake" (raspberry slice) and hang out there for a couple of hours.
We don't do halloween either.
Now that the touch rugby season is about to start, we will have touch every Wednesday night, which will mean "easy" dinner..
We don't really have any that are different, but these ones work in our house.
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 10:31am |
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When I was young going to into town and going to the central library as a family every week (very big book people here!) was great, we would then sometimes have a meal when out also.
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 11:05am |
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Umm... we've got a few different sorts of things...
Weekly stuff:
- Friday night is Takeaways
- Saturday night is Date Night (currently Nat and I have an at-home date once the kids are in bed) and if we're having a special dinner then the kids know they are having noodles or toasted sandwiches or something easy like that, and that Date Night snacks are not for them!
- Sunday lunch is something fun (often chicken nuggets and chips) (tradition carried on from Nat's family)
Other times:
- Birthday person gets to choose what we have for dinner that night and what cake they want from my cake book
- Easter Sunday we have boiled eggs for breakfast (tradition carried on from my family)
- Christmas morning we sit around the tree and sing "Happy Birthday" to Jesus before we open any presents
- We have our first strawberrys of the season on my birthday in late October (tradition carried on from my family)
Other stuff:
- We don't "do" the tooth fairy, Easter bunny or Santa, but we have our own things instead:
For loosing teeth, I keep the baby teeth in an old film canister and we "buy" them at $1 a tooth. Kiya gives them straight to me.
For Easter, we give the children a small chocolate bunny and a novelty egg from us directly. If the youngest is too young for chocolate at their first Easter, I buy them a soft toy instead.
For Christmas, we all (Nat and myself included) have stockings that Nat and I openly sort out... the kids know the stockings are from Mum and Dad... they usually contain a bottle of drink, a chocolate bar, some lollies of some sort, a small packet of chips, and a small gift.
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 11:36am |
Well for Ella's first Easter I 'gave her' some dairy-free Lindt eggs which since I was breastfeeding her at the time I ate for her so she eventually got them (aren't I a nice mummy!  ). Christmas she gets prezzies but we're doing christmas gifts for children only in our little family now, and donate $ to charities for the adults instead of buying for them. My family has the dorky birthday song that we only know the first few lines to, but we all think it's funny and sing it to the birthday person every time anyway, so that'll carry on. For a wee while now we've had a standing weekly playdate with friends who visit on Tuesday night and we all eat pizza.
I say bedtime prayers with Ella if I'm the one tucking her in. And whoever is taking her to her cot at night will bring her over to the other one just as she's heading to bed, and we smother her with kisses on both cheeks while she grins and giggles away. If her daddy gets her up in the morning, he lifts her up to the ceiling to play with her mobiles first thing - she loves it.
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 4:00pm |
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We haven't started any of the sabbats yet Glow, but maybe soon with Samhain coming up. It's a little wierd for me being from the northern hemisphere and sort of having things in reverse, but I manage!
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 4:10pm |
Cool thanks ladies, for sharing some ideas. Easter is a good 1 then there is the tooth fairy too; Gee fun loosing teeth
Like your strawberry tradition Bec
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 5:49pm |
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oh, remembered the boys "give" each other a book each xmas and birthday
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 6:53pm |
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We have Friday night take out night - not always fish and chips.
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Andrew has a book every night before he goes to sleep
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On the person's birthday they choose dinner - this year i'm having a bbq
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Christmas - it was that we saw both sets on that day and each year we would go to my parents then the next year DH's but that won't work now.
I like the teeth one Becca - we may "borrow" that one.
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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 7:14pm |
We copied Becca and now have a date night on Tues when we watch a movie together usually (although it hasn't happened lately with various things going on )
We have pancakes on Sat morning and then usually a walk over the hill to let DD play at the park and then go to a cafe for coffee/hot choc/fluffy 
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 7:24pm |
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 8:13pm |
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we often celebrate a few japanese festivals - Tanabata - which ins the 7th of July - we tie our wishes to a tree (kinda how it goes) and OBon, which is a day of the dead - kinda again. i like the idea of remembering ones who have passed, rather than the rituals themselves which involve candles and shrines.
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 8:15pm |
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apart from the bedtime things, we have a couple of things we do. Takeaways on sat. night (sometimes we go crazy and have them on friday instead..)
Thursday night is steak and chips night
Sunday is farmers market morning
Tuesdays is music
Go for a drive on Xmas eve and look at the chrissy lights
Birthday person gets to choose dinner (either out or at home)
Santa Stockings - we all have one (well, Charly dosen't yet) and I fill it with little bits and bobs - lollies, fruit, deodies/moisterisers/hair stuff (teenager)and wee toy for J and more choccies for mum and dad. Our family did this, and I liked it.
Lots of other wee things. Love the tooth idea, Becca. Am going toplay "easter bunny" by ear, but I love Christmas, and get rather caught up in Santa, although the children will know the true meaning of Chrissy, and when they are a bit bigger, they will come to midnite mass with me.
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 8:41pm |
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OT but my mum kept all my teeth, but told me about the tooth fairy. anyway, she moved,and i found all these teeth. "who's are these mum?" I ask "the dogs" she said "i kept his baby teeth" and i believed her..up until about 2 years ago wheni was telling story about mum keeping my dog teeth and someone pointed out that that was pretty much impossible and then i clicked...oooohhhh (BTW I was about 20 when she told me the original tale)
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 8:46pm |
That's really funny. When I took my dog to be fixed at 5 months, the vet nurse pulled out a tooth at the same time as it was loose and they didn't want her to swallow it post surgery. She had put it in a jar and asked me if I wanted to keep it. Apparently some people do keep their dogs baby teeth 
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 9:14pm |
just remembered we do have one xmas tradition...i put a piece of fruit in their stockings.
Just realised what a meanie mummy i am. My husband and i put up the tree in the night without the kids...and then a week later we decorate it in the night without the kids too!
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 9:14pm |
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We don't have any rituals apart from having a roast on sunday, which is something that both our families did, seems to be an English thing.
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Posted: 15 October 2007 at 9:35pm |
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i think most of mine are more routine then anything else.
we all sleep in on dfs days off from work and he normally lets me sleep in on the weekend too,
we each get a christmas stocking and it has lotsa lil pressies in plus some junk food and a peice of fruit,
we go out for tea on my birthday with my family and grandma pays,
on tuesday evenings tash gets to go to the supermarket with df and she gets lollipop if she good(or if she smiles at the manager, who is a family friend, and asks for one)
thursday is grocery day and shopping day.
for tashs birthday we always have a bbq.
we dont do anything for halloween, or really easter.if i feel like it i might get a few eggs for me and df and tash gets a stuffed toy bunny
i tend to change the lounge around once every couple of months and i change the bedrooms around every 3 months. not sure if that counts but its something i decided on doing and tash and df do it together.
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