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    Posted: 27 February 2008 at 11:59pm

I was happily driving to Feilding tonight down Camerons Line (for those that know the area) and i'm in lead car in a line of traffic and the next thing I see in front of me is this cloud of dust and then a white vehicle airbourn rolling then it crashing to the ground and roll about 5 times before it came to a stop in the middle of the road.

As I saw it roll I rang 111 straight away and was the first to do so. I slowed down and kept my car a bit back incase it blew up. Ran to the sceen where I found a young guy trapped in the car not moving or making any sound. The girl from the car behind it was there trying to get the guy to talk and really just stay awake.

Finally the police and ambulance turned up but he was trapped so they had to wait for the fire brigade to turn up. They turn up and need the Palmy fire brigade as they have the equipment to take him out.

We were asked to move aside (which was fine) and the police got our statements. I moved my car so the Palmy fire people could get closer and then while giving my statement I sat down on the ground leaning against my car. I was left along and I decided to lay down as my legs and arms went numb. A fire person came over to see how I was then an army medic (who was behind me in the line of traffic) came over and said I was in shock. They took me inside (the accident was right outside a house) and I had a few drinks and felt much better, so I went back outside and saw that he was out of the ute. I had to sit outside and watch (some strange reason) the ute being tipped over and onto the tow truck.

I had to wait for victim support person to turn up as once the police found out I was at home with the boys alone they didn't want me to be at home alone, the victim support lady was great. I got my car into Feilding (a couple of band people came out and got me) and went to the last few minutes of band (I didn't play thou) and then my car was driven back to Palmy by my friend.

Now his wife (also a friend) is staying with me tonight.

I can't sleep, everytime I close my eyes all I can see is the car rolling and flying and the blood from his head, and I can't take a sleeping pill as I had a few stiff drinks at the band rooms.

I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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OMGosh big hugs luv.... that sounds soso awful. Im sooo glad you have someone staying with you tonight. Sounds like you had heaps of support and help. Take cae and I hope you ar able to get some sleep.


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OMG Becks that must have been awful for you to see!
Big huge to you, I hope you get some sleep tonight.
I hope the poor guy from the car is ok too.
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OMg how awful! Stuff like that really sticks in you rmind huh. Hope you can get some sleep soon
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Oh Becks thats awful Gosh you've had a rough week! I'm glad that you've obviously got some great support. Hope you manage to rest and the guy is OK.
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scarey! but weren't you GOOD! I would've...well, not sure, but certainly not been so calm in the beginning. you need to congratulate yourself for that part!
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that must have been so scary. sound slike you did really well though just make sure you take up any offers of councelling or support through the victim support, Ive heard they are really good.
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That would have been really scary to witness. You did really well though.
Hope you feel better this morning.

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oh becks it is a week for it isnt it...I was shaking when i kept avoiding being hit the other day by the cop chase...and now you!!!

I can understand the shock = you go into over drive with adrenaline and then BOOM reality strikes and shock sets in.....I hope you dont keep getting flashbacks tho....I saw a young girl get hit by a car months back and that kept flashing into my mind for days - damn photographic memory!!!!

BIG HUGS....and hope the kids / people from the car are ok
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holly molly hun hope your feeling better today bighugs
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Gosh that's scarey! Big hugs
    
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hope you are feeling better this morning. just lkie someone else said well done you for acting so quickly calmly and promptly.
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Hey Becks, hope you're doing ok now and that you got some sleep. If you need to talk make sure you keep in touch with the victim support lady, and also your friends... what a horrible thing for you to see.

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Big hugs mate that sounds awful! Hope you got a good sleep last night and are feeling a bit better today.
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How are you doing this morning Becks?
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I'm doing a little better this morning. I got the boys to daycare (so didn't want to drive thou) so now I can sleep as not much of that happened last night. Just as I posted it we had a power cut  that lasted an hour and couldn't sleep through that. Then finally got to sleep at 2.30 only to wake up again with flashbacks. Got to sleep again and then woke up in a fright at 6.30 wondering where I was .

The victim supprot lady rang this morning to make sure I was ok and told me to get into contact with my dr if I need to. Then just now the lady that was in a car behind me rang to make sure I was ok as she heard my last name (not a very common one) and knew some relatives so I was easy to track down.

I want to go to sleep now but just can't so I think the sleeping pills will be out tonight.

I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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Oh Becks. I hope you get through it OK! xoxo
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Wow thank god you are ok, I thought as I opened the forum and saw it was from you please don't let it be you in the accident as you have had so much to deal with lately........ not a nice thing to witness though, big hugs
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Oh Becks you have had a bit of a hard time lately probably compounded because of DH not being there too. But so glad to hear that there are people looking out for you.
Big hugs and I hope you get a bit of a rest today.
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