realationshp help again

hi sorry i have to do another rant!!
thanks for all your help last time
well was happening now is that my partners saing that he loves me less because im not going to turn muslim which hurt me and telling me that hedoesint wanna be with me because of the way i live... anyways we got bac on track for a while and then just last night on the phone he sai hes going to joina gym wich is ine with m bt all i sid was could you please not spend to much time there because uare hardly here as it is..... and suddenly he went off his nut becuse i appt said it in a bad way!! and was just emotional from taking car off mila alone the night before where she wouldint slep till 3am!! and he whole week coz he went out 3 times in a row with mates e doesint get it at all what i have to do evry day (he even asked why the houe is a mess and wht do i o all day!!!) anyways then he said you know eva scnce ive been spending more time wit you im getting crap grades!! how the hell is that my fult i dont stop him studying he dnt live with us he hs plent of ime to study. then every time i said somthing he said in a imature voice oh ok miss boss and then i said im not gong to be treated this way and he said yeah coz ur a queen!!!! then i was so upseat and said i don wana be with him any more and hanged up, but today he keeps clling and askingabou mila and then goes and i said that i dint men it and y didint he fight for me but he just says that he want space. my question is does this show he doesint love m cozhes not fighting for me at all and the fact that he keeps calling to talk to mila just feels like hes rubbing it in my face ( i dont mind that hes caling for mila but 5 times alrady today??)

I think he needs to do some growing up and I think you need to move on and start a new life with Mila. It's quite obvious to me that he has no idea what he wants from you or your relationship (if you can even call it that).

Do you love him?

I have to agree with Roskana there. Cut your losses now and don't let him try and do that to you.

Everyones already said exactly what i would say ...count your losses and start the life you and your daughter deserve.

I really think you ought to see if he will go to relationship counselling with you. If you don't have the $$ for it, go to a Family Court and they can refer you for free. I think you both have a lot to learn about each other (I mean that in a nice way) if you are going to make it in relationship. It sounds like you have nothing to lose by trying it out! If he won't go, go alone!

I have to agree...he doesnt sound worth your time or your love and he is just playing mind games with you which is emotional abuse. do you really want Mila growing up thinking its ok to be treated like this by a man....
Dont waste anymore time with him...move on and find someone who will love you for who you are

I agree with the others.

You now need to take charge of the situation and don't let him give you the run around. You need to keep things stable for Mila, so I would be setting times that he can ring, and times that he can see her. Its not mean....its necessary for your girl to have routine.
Good luck with whatever you do.

I think Bombshell knows would know what to do about your worries regarding him taking you to court , perhaps you should PM her and she can tell you all your rights .

There is plenty i want to say about this man Chonni, and none of it nice...but you obviously still love him despite what hes done ,so out of respect for your feelings, i wont ....just remember, love isnt supposed to hurt, and you are hurting .

First of all Holy MOLY Roksana you are 26 weeks already!!!!!!


Secondly im with the others this guy isn't worth the hassle you need to step back and look at what is happening.... this is in no way a normal relationship! Love is unconditional, anything else is just control and from control comes a miserble life... which by the sounds of things is exactly what you have, so do you want to live like this for the next 50 or so years? Time to move on or get help.

Kelly Kelly Kelly....LOL