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minik8e 
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 7:19am |
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Today I lost you. You were DF's little "boy" and my precious angel, so dearly wanted and loved even at such an early time. My heart is breaking and I lie here crying because I can't understand why this keeps happening to us. The physical pain is bearable, the emotional pain is not. You were so so loved and wanted, I can't believe or start to understand why you have left us.
I just don't understand.
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 7:47am |
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 7:55am |
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:29am |
Kate hun i feel for you and DF - 
You know we are here for you 
xxxxxx
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:30am |
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:44am |
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TTC 6 years
IVF it is
IVF/ICSI round one
10 eggs, 8 mature, 3 fertilised BFN
IVF/ICSI #2 = 22 eggs!
20 mature, 15 fertilised, 1 fresh transfer and 2 frosties
BFN
2 Frosties still in freezer thank god
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 9:48am |
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 10:05am |
Kate, I am so sad for you to see your post. No words can fix how you and DF are feeling but my thoughts are with you both.
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Kerryn, Mum to
Ashlyn(29/3/04), Anastasia(1/11/05) & Abigail (24/02/09)
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 10:11am |
Kate - my thoughts are with you at this terrible time. I hope you get some answers too... life is so unfair sometimes So sorry for your loss hun.
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 11:00am |
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I'm so sorry Kate, its just so unfair that you have to go through this again.
Sending you and DP tons of love and prayers xxxxx
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minik8e
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 11:27am |
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I have a strange TMI question. All of my m/c have been different. This one, I was woken at 4am with indescribable pain and cramps, started bleeding very very heavily at about 6am, passed a large clot at around 8am and since then the bleeding (and cramps) have pretty much stopped. This isn't right is it?
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 11:52am |
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 12:19pm |
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Kate in my experience each time can be different. Another friend of mine who has had several MC says this is true for her too. It does seem like a sudden stop to bleeding and cramps though. When do you next see your doc?
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 1:13pm |
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I found with both of mine that once the actual 'pregnancy' as my specialist likes to call it has come out my bleeding was nearly stopped with in an hour or two. This was seen as a good sign as they considered the mc complete and so didn't need a d&c. Depends on if what you passed was just a clot or more than that - I saw mine very clearly. (Sorry TMI I know).
My thoughts are with you, I am so sorry.
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 1:15pm |
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Oh Kate. I'm so sorry.
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 5:40pm |
OMG Kate i so thought this was an old post. I am so sorry for your loss
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I was a puree feeder, forward facing, cot sleeping, pram pushing kind of Mum... and my kids survived!
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Posted: 23 September 2008 at 8:09pm |
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Kate,
Life is so unfair, nothing can take away from what you are feeling at the moment.
Take every minute you need and remeber that little one. Did you have a name for him?
I have had 3 mc's and they have all been different, never bleeding, however my last was stillborn and I was similar with the bleeding with Anika.
I gave birth to her the I bled very heavy for about 3 hours passed loads of clots. After I passed the clots it was almost over for me.
What you have experience is what they call a completed mc, however make sure you get checked up to make sure your insides are ok.
Again Kate, I am so sorry for you, I hope you can spend sometime with just you and your thoughts.
Sending you lots of love & wishes for the future
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To My Angel
