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MissCandice
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Location: Christchurch
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Topic: Grrr Family! Posted: 21 March 2009 at 9:34am |
Have i mentioned how much i hate living here??
Im sure i have, i hate it, i hate it, and i hate it!
2 weeks is far too long!
My family is immature! Well the adults are.. Seems the teens act more grown up and responsible than the adults!!
I listed HEAPS of stuff for my uncle (who also lives here) on trade me, answered all the questions and done all the pick ups. All he had to do was post stuff.
So i find out yesterday that he hasnt posted one of the items that were paid for like a month ago!!
Im so angry, its my trade e account, i have 250 good feedbacks and hes going to get me a negitive.
So i text him this morning, telling him and he comes upstairs all angry and says to me really rudely 'NO i havnt posted the sheets, and dont you text me in the morning on a Saturday again, i was trying to sleep thank you' and i replied, excuse me, you have your phone on silent 24 hours a day 7 days a week, and he just walked off!!
How utterly rude, iv gone out of my way to help him and he treats me like that. I drop him off places, i fix his computer, i do all his trade me sh*t, i cook and include him almost every night!!
I guess im just having a rant. Hes so rude. I mean he accused me and DF of using his razor (To which we didnt thats disgusting!) and didnt speak to me for a month! and he even ignored Kylah if i was holding her. Hes so immature it makes me angry.
I desperatly want out!
I only have 2 weeks to go as of today but it feels like forever!
Not to mention how guilty i feel for leaving! My mum lays on the guilts as well. Its stopped this week but i still know what shes thinking. I cant even show im excited at home or i feel bad!
GRRRRR Can someone make time go faster?
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TysMummy
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Joined: 03 September 2007
Location: Waikato
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Posted: 21 March 2009 at 11:56am |
would luv too
as for TM i sugesst you contact people and explain about delay before they do give you bad feed then get items off your uncle and post them and never do it again...........
my family is the same...............we have small place here and my hubbies uncle has moved to oz and said if he can leave his ute and motorbike here until he decides what to do with them......it was only suppose to be a few months.........anway now my boy is older he keeps trying to play on things and told hubby i want the things gone......we sooooooooooooo dont have the room.............thinking it may be male thing
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busyissy
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Joined: 16 January 2007
Location: Hamilton
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Posted: 21 March 2009 at 12:52pm |
If he can't treat you with respect and be grateful for your help then stop helping him. I know its harsh but he sounds like a bit of a user.
I'll never understand that about families they think they can treat each other how ever they like and it doesn't matter. To me you should treat the people you love and who love you with even more kindness and respect than you would a friend or stranger since because they have feelings for you, and you them, they are vunerable to you and more easily hurt.
But just think by tomorrow it will only be 13 days to go and counting!
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flakesitchyfeet
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Posted: 22 March 2009 at 8:05am |
You are so close now Kandice! Hang in There!!
You and Kylah deserve your own space. I kind of understand the guilt though, when we move its about 45mins away from Mum instead of 15, and so she won't see Hollie as much and I can't look after the boys for her as much either. Although she has put an offer on a house thats closer (not to bug me, just coincidental and I'm quite chuffed really) So fingers crossed.
Sorry...that was a bit of a ramble wasn't it..
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Aquarius
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Joined: 05 January 2009
Location: Christchurch
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Posted: 22 March 2009 at 12:36pm |
i gather you are living with extended family and are moving out shortly??
been there done that...and honestly everytime hasnt ended well...lol
i think we are put in these situations because once you are in your own place you will ALWAYS appreciate the privacy and space!!
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