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Richie
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Topic: Dogs and Newborns.... Posted: 04 December 2009 at 9:05pm |
So I'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas on the best way to get my dog used to the idea of having a baby in the house. We have an 18 month old Boxer dog. He is the most trustworthy, loving dog so I'm not worried about him being aggressive towards bubs when she arrives, I just worry about him getting a bit jealous. He has always been our boy. Sleeps in our bedroom with us (never on the bed, in the corner on his bed) and is generally inside with us when we are home. With the weather getting nicer and days getting longer tho we are slowly trying to increase the amount of time he is outside tho to help prepare for when Isla arrives.
If any of you have had to introduce your dog to your newborn, can you please let me in on any pointers that might make it an easy transition? Thanks in Advance ladies
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RinTinTin
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Posted: 04 December 2009 at 10:04pm |
Bring home some clothes from the hospital before you come home and give them to your dog to sniff and cuddle up with (don't worry if he destroys them, won't mean he's going to destroy the baby).
Then, when you get home with baby, have our dog on his lead and bring him outside to meet the new bubba. Let him sniff around and give him treats for being gentle and accepting.
I think the biggest mistake people make is to shut their dog away when the baby is out. All that tells the dog is that baby = locked up. Assuming he has been obedience trained, get him to lay down at your feet, or sit next to you when you have baby. Give him the odd pat and treats if you can. That way baby = treats and attention.
We have 5 dogs 
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Posted: 04 December 2009 at 10:51pm |
Good advice from Carin!
There was a thread on this a while back - here's the link
We've got a boxer too although he's a bit older than yours and there haven't been any jealousy issues. Can't say we actually did the dirty nappy thing I talked about in the other thread though  and turned out that was unnecessary. Mind you Beans has never even been allowed in the bedrooms so that wasn't an issue for us either.
Only issues we're having are about now, JJ is running around like a crazy loon so sometimes Beans will get a bit excited and run around like a crazy loon too which is fine until JJ gets knocked over!
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Posted: 04 December 2009 at 11:02pm |
LOL @ weegee - that's kinda nice - our poor dumb cletus gets fed every little stick or flower she can pick up, and he eats them because "ahyuck, she gave me treat"
nzlisajo - I think you have to trust your instinct to some extent. Has your dog been around babies before? If he hasn't, now would be a good time to offer babysitting to friends so the dog gets used to sharing his mum sometimes. Also, if his bed is going to be moved do it now, well before baby arrives. I second AmStaff's advice with letting the dog have a good sniff of baby when you come home from the hospital - a few licks won't hurt. I also spent a bit of money on treats and cheap toys, as in the early days I really did neglect my poor woof a bit (I had a c-section so just couldn't run and play) so instead of the running around I'd go and sit on the step while baby was asleep and give him a treat or toy.
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Posted: 05 December 2009 at 1:34am |
Sorry i dont really have any advice but..
We have a boxer as well  he has always been very gentle with the kids, but like weegee's boxer, Maverick can go a bit spazz when he gets excited lol, jumps around and his big clumsy paws really hurt when they get you.
One of my mums clients breeds boxers, and aparently they love babys and children and are very gentle with them.
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Posted: 05 December 2009 at 9:07am |
Thanks for advice ladies! Benson is good with kids. When we first got him at 8wks old, we felt bad leaving him at home while we were at work all day. My older sister had just got a boxer pup too (he's 4 months older than Benson) and she is a stay at home mum to her two kids who were 2 and 4 at the time we got Benson so we would drop him at her house during the day so he could socialise with the kiddies and other dog and we'd pick him up after work. If we ever go away, she looks after him so he has grown up around those kids and he is very gentle with them. He is normally a nutter and bowls around all over the place but he is a completely different dog around kids. He knows to lie down and let them pat him, he never jumps up. I think he should be OK. I also agree that the worst thing to do is shove the dog outside as soon as baby arrives cause thats when the jealousy will kick in. He is a pretty obedient dog so he should learn pretty quick.
Thanks so much for your comments and yay to all of us who have boxers! They are the best
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Posted: 05 December 2009 at 7:08pm |
My only advice on top of what the others have said is that anything you intend to change (say if you are thinking he won't sleep in your bedroom once bubs arrive, for example) make that change now that way the dog won't associate it with the baby at all.
When I came home from the hospital I went outside and said hello to the dogs without the baby then they came in were introduced to the baby and allowed to sniff away like mad things, then i just told them to go to bed (they always are on their beds when indoors) and we had bought them a couple of rawhide chews each and gave them them. They were happy as but did freak the first time he cried so I just told them to go back to bed as if it was nothing, within no time they were sleeping through him crying even if he screamed the house down.
Ceaser Milan recommends taking the dog and the pram out pre-baby to teach the dog to walk behind the pram, I couldn't bring myself to push an empty pram around like a mental patient though. Mine quickly learnt how to walk next to it, but that's something you might think about doing. I did do lots of walks with the dogs and baby either in the pram or sling as I thought it would be a good association baby/pram = walk
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Posted: 05 December 2009 at 7:18pm |
We have a new baby and our dog has been fine and seems to know not to get too close to the baby. She comes over for a sniff but doesn't get any closer than that. I read about all the tips etc. but didn't get around to doing any of them and everything has been fine.
The one thing we did do was not let the dog go into the baby's room before she was born to get used to that and also not to tell them off when they get close to the baby cause then they see the baby as a negative thing.
I think dogs must have a natural instinct to be gentle around babies??
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Posted: 05 December 2009 at 8:02pm |
Yay for all the boxers, they are so cute! We have french bulldogs which are very cute too
We have got them used to all the baby ?paraphenalia so they dont freak out at all the gadgets like the capsule, pram etc. A few years ago my dog did not like my friends baby at all! She used to jump into his capsule when we were holding him and would always sniff his bag.
Someone suggested taking the pram for a walk with the dogs, so they get used to walking with it. I have been too scared though, what if someone looks inside and sees no baby!!
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Posted: 05 December 2009 at 8:43pm |
Totally do walk the dog with the pram!! Our youngest dog (bullmastiff x) is a bit of a slow learner and shes really only just getting good with walking beside the pram,not trying to chase the wheels or run away from it. Wish i had done it sooner! And now she knows that Brennan will give her his food so likes it more
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Posted: 05 December 2009 at 9:28pm |
I've been getting Benson used to the pram by pushing it around the house with him on the lead. Not game enough to walk down the streeet with it tho! lol He hasn't once tried biting the wheels or anything. He's pretty laid back. He's still a bit afraid of the pram but getting better. We have a big back yard and long driveway so might have to start taking him for 'walks' up and down the driveway with the pram. Never thought of that!
Jane25 - We have let Benson into Isla's nursery a few times (we have it all set up already) just so he can get used to the change in scenery. The room was all painted and new curtains and of course there is now a cot etc in there but now he knows not to go in there. If we are in there, he just lies down at the door.
I'm thinking it is worthwhile finding somewhere else for him to sleep rather than in our room cause it will be quite crowded having our big bed, Benson on his dogbed AND a bassinette in there! Maybe if we just move his dog bed to outside our bedroom door. I like having him close to us at night for protection.
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Posted: 06 December 2009 at 7:48am |
Lol I have 3 boucy noisy annoying nippy bichon frise's... When Thomas came home, I changed nothing. They still sleep in our room, they follow thomas around They come into his bedroom when he goes to bed and have to say goodnight, all the things dogs like to do! it will be the same deal when the next one arrives.
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Posted: 06 December 2009 at 8:46am |
I recall being worried with our dog, too.
In the end we didn't do anything to help transition her, we trusted her to be obedient and respectful - and she was.
They're best buddies and have never been any trouble for eachother.
It'll be just fine
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