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Brenna
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Topic: Annoying habits Posted: 30 July 2007 at 9:10pm |
DH and I are always on at each other about 2 habits...
Mine - I leave draws and cupboards in the kitchen partly open
His - he leaves wet towels on the bed
Whats your (or your DP/DH/DF/DW's ) annoying habit?
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Maya
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Posted: 30 July 2007 at 9:13pm |
He leaves plates in the sink and runs water over them so that when I do the dishes I have to put my hands in seedy, cold, greasy water and fish them out. He thinks he's being helpful.
I'm sure I have no annoying habits
Altho Willie would probably disagree...
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Posted: 30 July 2007 at 9:18pm |
Oooooh, confession time!
DH: Never, ever does the baby's laundry. Leaves refrigerated stuff on the kitchen bench until I put it away (ketchup, milk, juice, leftovers). Refuses to kill scary-looking bugs -- prefers to liberate them out the back door. Disappears when it's baby's bathtime. Me: Leave laundry in the washer for ages until it gets smelly and needs rewashing. Leave dishes for ages as I hate doing them. Never, ever clean up the dog poop.
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Posted: 30 July 2007 at 9:40pm |
DH: Leaves the kitchen cloths wet, covered in food, and in the sink (eww). Doesn't put clean folded clothes away. Does loud farts that shake the bed in the mornings!!
Me: Leave dishes for ages (ditto hate doing them). Put the drier on for too long. Leave dishes around the house from snacks.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 8:11am |
Me- have a 'Mt Everest'(according to DH) size pile of clothes on the bedroom floor permanently.
DH- sets the table with the knife and fork the 'wrong' way round. Changes the radio stations at home and in my car and doesnt put it back to mine.
I know I say "Grrr you piss me off when u do that' a bit,..but cant remeber why right now! Lol!
Isla- eats anything she gets her hands on that isnt food!
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 8:22am |
Wet towels on the bed for him, although I seem to have stopped that one. It goes on our bedroom floor now.
Mine mmmmmm lets see. I dont have any annoying habits at all.
Naah I guess he will say if I am mad I just put the phone down in his ear and he gets super mad. I know bad but think that is better than me screaming like a wild banshee.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 8:27am |
His other habits are clothes in the corner of the room and mixing it with clean clothes.
His hobby stuff all over the dining room table. He will clear it off now and then but a million small pieces stay behind. If I say anything it is called nagging which he dont like at all. Then if something goes missing guess who is at fault. (never mind that we have a toddler and I have to keep her away from it or that we have to eat on that table)
He empty his wallet of all reciepts in one pile. And I suppose he wants me to sort through them.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 8:47am |
DH flicks his fingernails, it drives me mad, grounds for divorce me thinks, he also plays with his phone in bed and i cant stand the sounds of buttons being pressed when i am trying to sleep.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 9:34am |
When I moved in with my partner I said we were allowed 3 rules that we each set that would make it easier to live together.
His: the 3 T's: Toothpaste lid has to go back on, toilet paper has to face out and no towels on the bed.
Mine: clean toilet after use (if it needs it - you know what I mean  ), replace toilet roll if empty and pat me on my head and tell me he loves me when I have a melt down day.
Works well!
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 10:02am |
What is with it with men who don't replace the toilet roll?
DH-leaves lights on in rooms he's not in, kitchen cupboards/drawers open(though getting better), loading dishwasher without rinsing, flicking nails while watching tv
Me-having piles everywhere (clothes, papers...) I am sure there are more but this is the only one I am willing to own up to
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 10:20am |
DP - Filling things up with water (cans, bowls, jars) and putting them in the sink. Apparently this is helping. Washing huge loads of clean clothing then just leaving it all in the washing machine for me to spend bloody ages hanging out, then having no room to hang out the babies clothes.
The one thing that really annoys me is when my family or friends come over and are having a conversation with me or even him, he will butt in and tell them some really long-winded, boring story about a car, and use really technical details that nobody understands and by the time he's finished, everyone has forgotten what they were talking about and having to wake themselves up from being bored to fricken sleep..
Me - I always leave the fridge door open and I open new packets of things before using the old stuff..
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 10:26am |
DH- clothes everywhere on the floor so you can't walk past the bed to open the curtains, leaves dirty dishes on the bench instead of in dishwasher, leaves shoes lying around, wipes the toast crumbs off the bench but doesn't rinse the cloth so when i use the cloth it puts crumbs back on the bench
i'm sure there's alot more but can't think of them right now.
me- nothing i'm perfect
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 10:40am |
DH: throws his washing at the laundry basket so it lands next to it on the floor instead of IN it!
Procrastinates about doing things when I've asked then gets sh*tty when I end up doing them. eg "can you please mow the lawns?" A week later still not done so DW (ME) 9months pregers goes and does them!
ME: Throws the dish cloth in the sink without squeezing the water out
DH hates how I don't turn his washing out the right way before putting it in the draws.............I say do it yourself!! It's just another job for me otherwise!
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 10:42am |
DP - Hates doing dishes, and complains when there is food stuck to stuff, power police - turns everything off at the wall even the TV.
Will re-clean the shower/bathroom after i've already done it. Don't know why I bother.
Doesn't change toilet roll either, have been caught out a few times.
Me - i'm a clutter bug, paper and stuff in little piles.
We both work, so I don't understand why he gets annoyed that he has to do some of the house work as well.
Sometimes I do wonder why I agreed to marry this man.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 11:23am |
Hrmm, it seems like a woman thing, the little piles everywhere? I do that. It drives DF insane. I also don't refill the toilet paper holder if I use the last roll, unless the roll is getting rather low. And I come home and read the paper before I do any housework/cook tea. Probably a heap of other things too. I read/come on the net before I do the housework.
DF - doesn't wash down the bathroom vanity after washing his hands when he's come in from work (covered in cow crud). Doesn't shut the dryer door properly (I can see one of the dogs barreling past and taking the door off at the hinges). Leaves egg shells etc in the sink and then puts dishes on top of them so when you go to do the dishes you empty the sink and it smells real bad cos there's old egg shells etc. under the plates.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 11:36am |
Ha ha this has made for very amusing reading
DH: leaving water all over the vanity after he's shaved, not cleaning the microwave properly after exploding something (usually eggs) in there & not replacing the toilet roll. This is particularly annoying when I get up in the middle of the night & I don't turn the light on so have to fumble around for a new roll.
Me: putting my feet up on our nice rimu coffee table, not replacing the soap in the shower & ummm I know there's more I just can't think of them.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 11:43am |
DH picks his nose! I mean puh-lease, he's a grown man! I keep saying 'I'll be telling our chidren off for doing that and you keep modelling it to them so just frickin STOP it you...." you get the idea. And every morning, I wipe up all the toast and cereal crumbs he's scattered over the kitchen but didn't clean up. grrrr.
Me? I tidy up the office, where he's 'arranged' things into piles everywhere - the clutter drives me nuts, so I clean up, un-doing all his 'arranging'. Drives him crazy.
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 11:47am |
Oh yeah - and I've got this weird thing for firewood piles. I stack up the night's worth of wood inside each day, which is fine, but I keep a pile for a few days under cover by the back door, and I refuse to let it get low (because it's there for cold, rainy nights when we run out of wood inside and don't want to trapse over the muddy lawn to get more). He hates it. Dunno why. Don't care! He runs completely out of stuff before getting more, and I hate the inconvenience of running out of anything essential (or even just useful).
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 12:54pm |
LOL at everybody! Hahaha
Okay I really hate: DH leaving his damp towel on the bed, and him changing the toilet roll but leaving the empty roll in the toilet room, at the back of the loo (hard to reach)!
He really hates: how little piles of stuff acculumate and don't get put away as often as they should. (Nor as often as I would like but sometimes I haven't the motivation!) I can't think of any more right now, I'm sure he'll come on and rectify that
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Posted: 31 July 2007 at 1:40pm |
DP: Leaves shoes and things in the middle of the floor so I trip over them while going to the toilet in the middle of the night. Makes an espresso coffee every morning driving me nuts with the noise. Forgets absolutely everything, birthdays, appointments, etc. Sets his alarm and then goes back to sleep and expects me to wake him up every single day. Doesn't listen to what I say, but when I hit him up about it, he can repeat everything I said word for word somehow.
Me: I write notes on bits of paper and leave them lying around everywhere. I don't like sharing 'my' 3 seater couch. There is also a nail clipping issue that really bugs him but I won't go into that
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