Uh oh, rant time!

I feel very sad at the mo My friend is getting married tomorrow and I am chief bridesmaid, there are 2 other BMs. The bride was my BM last year and we have been friends since we were tiny, but have sort f drifted apart over the years. Catch up regularly tho. Anyway, heres all the things that I have been left out of/not told about:
- Bride and other 2 BMs getting lovely fingernails
- organising the hens party (I tried to start it ages ago but was just told that itwas all sorted)
- The night after the hens party they all went out again (with other friends as well)
- Have had to ask about when to turn up for makeup practice and wedding rehersal tonight
- Offered numerous times to help with setting up the hall today but was told I wasnt needed as everyone else was taking the day off work to help out
- And this is the biggy, I didnt get told about the rehersal dinner tonight! Only know about it cos I heard others talking about it at the rehersal tonight. I even said a couple of times, ok then I'll see you tomorrow, but the bride still didnt say anything about it. What is up with that!

Anyway, feeling very over this whole weddign thing and cant wait for it to be over tomorrow. I think they all assume I have no time cos I've got a baby even tho I always say I have heaps of spare time (which I do). It just would have been nice t have been given the option of whether I could go to all these things, rather than just feeling left out and like I shouldnt even be in the wedding party. Oh well, rant over now. Thanks ladies.

Edited by aimeejoy

Aimee! I'm sorry you're feeling left out! I hope tomorrow is a beautiful, awesome day for you!

oh hunny hope tomorrow bring sunshine for u relax and enjoy

Big hugs Aimee. yes you are most probably right, they just dont want to put you out and are thinking of you. Hope you enjoy today

you poor thing! sounds like they've just taken it for granted that you'd be too busy for those things.
oh well, just make the most of having a day of getting all glammed up and remember to relax

Thanks lovely ladies! Yesterday was pretty good - lovely wedding but I left early once all my bridesmaidly duties were done. Didnt really have anyone to talk to and was really tired by 9.30! What a nana!! Still feel pretty bummed about it all but oh well... its over and done with now.

I'm usually the worst though I managed a night out last night and with the help of No Doz had quite a big one. Mind you, when I got home at 2am I couldn't get to sleep properly and this morning was hell. I gave into my limits on Hannah's TV watching and crashed out on the couch while she was entranced with cartoons

Nikki I have done that with th eboys too but it soooooo backfired on me. I woke to keegs standing infront of me with red all over his hands and freaked thinking whats he chopped of???? They had climbed onto my desk and found and old leaky red pen and smeared it all over my desk then with felts and pen had drawn on the wall, the windows, their toys, my desk, my swiss ball, the fire place, the fire hearth - i think thats all lol. Oh thats right they emptied the ashes out of the fire place (luckily they were cold!!!). Oh the things you have to look forward too. I swear they only started getting into this mischief once they turned 2.


Just quietly between all of us, somedays I could put them on trademe - free to a good home

PS whats this no doze stuff? Am going to UB$) this week - yayay - so may need a bit of a boost

My old friend called in a few days ago and caught up which was nice, but it turned out she was going to a friends wedding. A high school we three had been inseperable, however my friend got an invite and i didn't. i was hurt too, even when i realised that we hadn't seen each other ion over 5 years.....

not as bad Aimee, but i undersatdn your pain. Maybe later you can tell your friend how you felt? Or maybe not, i wouldn't - don't like confrontaion.

Oh Aimee...I am behind on all the goss again....but here is my 2 cents worth. I think it was mean the way your friends handled the situation. If they did this because you have a baby then they should have told you that...I would have been hurt and angry!!! but then my hubby says that my anger sits on the tip of my nose...he he ha ha.

I am glad you had a nice day and next time just dont worry about people like that, just do your own thing and enjoy yourself!!! I do hope tho that one way or the other you get to find out why they acted this way.....



Edited by Roksana