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Kazzle 
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 1:34pm |
well actually terrified, our last miscarriage was in april, we are officially ttcing this month (am on my tww), but i am scared of getting pregnant again...
And no matter how many people say to me "But why are you scared, you know what is wrong and have a action plan"...just doesnt help ya know!
I know i know whats wrong, I know that we have an action plan, but after 4 miscarriages in a row, i cant help but feel scare.
I also know that im probably going to feel like this until im actually pregnant and past my danger mark (11wks).
anyway thanks for letting me babble on 
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CuriousG
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 1:42pm |
Good luck Kaz - totally understandable why you are scared - downright petrified would probably be how I would be feeling!
Fingers, toes, legs, arms and eyes all crossed for you! 
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 1:47pm |
I totally understand Kaz. Most people freak out within the first few months and you have more reasons to than most.
It's ok to be scared as long as you don't let that get in the way of doing what you want, and that's having another baby. Feel free to come on here and sound out your fears anytime.
BTW: My older sis had DS1 followed by 3 MCs, strict instructions not to TTC and an operation. The minute she was given the all clear she TTC'd again and has gone on to have 2 more DS's. Once a plan is in place things are better - I'll be keeping you in my prayers and hoping that things go well for you this time.
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Freesia
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 1:50pm |
Kazzle, they are probably trying to be reassuring and positive but after what you've been through, of course you are going to be scared.
Good luck and I'll have everything crossed for you as well.
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 3:08pm |
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Fingers crossed, I can only imgine what you are going through, hoping next one is a sticky.
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Kazzle
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 3:35pm |
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 4:38pm |
Hi Kaz, I'm waitng to hear some good news for you. I only had the 1 mc last year and it has me nervous enough, hanging out to see the 12 scan, have a form to get a blood test done this week just have to make time to get down to see someone. I hope you have smooth sailing this time around.....
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 5:27pm |
awww hun, yeah you have every right to be scared, its just natural. All i can say is all the best and my thoughts are with you.
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 6:15pm |
Awww Kaz you have every right to be a bit scared.
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 7:53pm |
Its ok to be scared hun - you have had to deal with 4 miscarriages - that is alot and you have every right to feel scared or anxious.
Big big hugs and all the very best!
Sending the biggest stickiest vibes to you!
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 8:43pm |
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You have every right to be scared Kaz.
I hope you cruise through next time.
Lotsa sticky vibes coming your way
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 8:54pm |
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Good luck Kaz! I hope to hear some good new from you in a couple of weeks. And I'm sending you tons of sticky vibes!! :)
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 10:36pm |
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I sooo get where you are coming from. I've only had 2 mc but I am also scared to get pregnant.
I have my first specialist appointment tomorrow.
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Posted: 29 July 2008 at 8:37am |
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awww thanks guys, i dont know what i would do without you.
Vanillabean, keep me posted on how it goes
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Posted: 29 July 2008 at 12:51pm |
Aww kaz, i think you would be abit strange if you WEREN"T worrying! its only natural.
As soon as you get the BFP , i will be keeping my feet hands, arms and legs crossed for you til your past your danger mark ....which will make work and everyday living rather entertaining 
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Posted: 29 July 2008 at 1:14pm |
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aww hunn here lots of hugs for u
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Posted: 29 July 2008 at 2:26pm |
you guys are great, we have decided that this time around when we get pregnant that we wouldnt tell anyone until the 12wk mark...but i promise to tell you girls
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Posted: 29 July 2008 at 2:41pm |
Good luck Kazzle, lovely to see you back here and best wishes for a healthy trouble free pregnancy.
My sister is in the same boat she is just at the stage of seeing specialists at the moment to find out why she has had 4 miscarriages, it is heartbreaking and no one can change how you feel no matter what words they say, the worry and fear will be there just how much is purely up to you.
Best wishes Kazzle.
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Posted: 29 July 2008 at 8:01pm |
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Kazzle, I'll be watching and waiting as hard as I can for you as well. I'm hanging out for your sticky BFP day! With the keeping a secret thing, my advice would be to tell one good IRL friend so that you have a shoulder if you need it. But I definitely appreciate that you won't want everyone to know.
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Posted: 29 July 2008 at 8:28pm |
Sending you lots and lots of and baby dust!
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