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mummy_becks
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Topic: C sections Posted: 02 October 2006 at 1:34pm |
Ok so I am really scared of having one of these. I'm not scared about it being abdominal surgery as I have had 2 surgeries on my tummy and can handle that. The thing that scares me the most is the being awake while it happens. Please anyone who has had a c section reasure me that it is ok and its not that bad.
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jack_&_charli
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Posted: 02 October 2006 at 1:45pm |
hey it really isn't all that bad  i had one with jack and it while it feels bizarre, you don't really think too much about what's happening down there, because you are sooo anxious to be finally meeting your little baby.
my friend described the feeling as though someone was looking for something at the bottom of your handbag, and that was pretty accurate
the whole process is over pretty quickly and then you have your baby to look at while they do the rest so you don't think about it really. hope that helps reassure you
is there a reason you may need a c-section or is that just a worry you have?
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Posted: 02 October 2006 at 1:56pm |
A bit of both, I had a low lying placenta at my first scan and won't find out till Wed of its moved. If its moved then its moved to the back as I am feeling heaps of movement. I think it is a fear I have of being awake while having an "operation".
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Posted: 02 October 2006 at 2:05pm |
I remember our Antenatal Tutor scaring the life out of us about CS's and how horrid they are etc..
I had an emergency CS and I'm the biggest sook going!
After a not so nice labour (17 hour second stage-baby got stuck) I ended up having to have a CS, I was more scared for our baby than thinking about the op itself.
The things I remember was the Obstetrician & Anethetist (sp?) were the nicest guys ever! The sense of relief that it was almost all over (the labour) and the feeling of the weight of the baby being lifted when they took Caitlin out and also my hubby dressed in theatre scrubs and him saying "ohhh it's just like Shortland Street"
Recovery wise was fine for me - LOTS of Arnica!!!!
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Posted: 02 October 2006 at 2:47pm |
I had a c section also, and once the Anethetist has done his/her job (which by the way is the most painful part of the process), you dont feel anything except them tugging to get baby out, and if you do feel anything they will knock you out straight away.
Another thing is the anethetist will explain to you everything that he/she is going to do, before and during, so you are always in the know.
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Posted: 02 October 2006 at 4:13pm |
I'm more scared of an emergency c-sect than a planned one. If I knew it was going to happen I think I would cope OK, but the thought of being "rushed" into theatre because the babies are distressed etc. really freaks me out.
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Posted: 02 October 2006 at 6:19pm |
I had to have an emergency C-section after a 40 hour labour. (Amelia decided to put her head back at the last minute).
Anyway, I was soooo tired by then that I actually fell asleep on the table, but did wake up to feel them take her out, and also remove the placenta - was a strange feeling - that sudden lightness, and then someone delving around in your tum. They explained that you can't feel anything, but you can feel pressure, which is exactly right. I'd had an epi put in 12 hours before, so I didn't have a problem having the anaesthetic put in. Although I tried to throw up afterwards (I hate anaesthetics ... they all do that to me) and a bit of a breathing problem because the epi block had moved right up and I was numb from the neck down.
And yes, I cried when they told me I had to have one - from the disappointment of a looong labour and then being cut open. But all the staff were fabulous and really look after you well, plus you get to meet your bubba at the end, so it all fades away fairly quickly.
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Posted: 02 October 2006 at 7:28pm |
Becks, my first baby was born by emergency c/s (haemorrage mid-labour) and the second one was nearly an elective (breech). As Emma says, the emergency part of it is the freakiest thing but I guess I probably was a bit shocked and didn't have any time to worry about it either.
Everything is really well explained and I had an anaethetist whose job was solely to make sure I was okay and had enough drugs  So she chatted to me throughout and it was a great distraction.
I dunno, somehow we mums just find the strength somewhere to deal with what life throws at us. Let us know what happens at your next scan.
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Posted: 02 October 2006 at 8:41pm |
Agree with the anaesthetist part! I had a really, really lovely guy who distracted me heaps. I told him I was really scared, and he did everything to make sure I was as comfortable as the situation would allow.
The emergency part is a lil scary, but I'd resigned myself to the fact of a c-section because Ashlee wasn't going anywhere, not even budging after more than 8 hours into the induction! In saying that though, I think I'll be worse with knowing I was booked in for a c-section if it was elective. I was so naive with this one because it was my first, so next time I'll probably psych myself out and stress big time because I know what's coming!
You well and truly can't feel any pain, but you do feel pressure. It's such a weird feeling! It's really hard to describe. I like the handbag description though lol. I laughed while it was all going on because it was just strange! Then I thought, hmmm better not laugh because my belly will wobble and they might cut something they're not meant to! And after the few minutes it takes to get babe out, you're so distracted with listening to bubs crying and wanting to see him/her that you don't even notice they're stitching you back up. It all took less than half an hour (I think?! well it felt pretty darn quick anyway. I remember looking at the clock when they were prepping me outside the operating theatre and it was 5.40pm, and Ashlee was born at 6.03!)from prepping me for theatre to sewing me back up.
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Posted: 03 October 2006 at 9:58am |
i had an emergency c-section, but after 45 hours labour and no sleep it was suuuuch a relief!! i was like yeeessss bring it on. it honestly isnt as bad as it sounds, i actually enjoyed the experience...maybe i'm just wierd tho, but its pretty kool knowing that seeing your baby is only minutes away....kinda like unwrapping a present! it doesnt hurt at all, just the very odd feeling of your tummy being rummaged through
the only part i disliked was that one of the drugs they gave me made me shake like a washing machine after the baby was out! but i havnt heard about anyone else getting the shakes so that might have just been a reaction that only i got. and that i couldnt feel anything below my chest for a while, it feels like your skin is like a mile thick!
but when the babys out you forget all that...i dont really mind the fact that i had to have a c-section, actually it was the most positive experience out of the whole labour birth thing.
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Posted: 03 October 2006 at 10:15am |
I too had an emergency c-section due to failure to progress and baby unable to come out after 19 hours of labour. Seriously, it was fine, and like the others have said, the anaesthetist who was with me was awesome, chatting away and explaining every step of the way what she was doing, and what the doctors were doing. She held my hand while they took him away to weigh etc (I sent my partner with them - told him not to let the baby out of his sight, like, what did I think was going to happen!!!). I think if I have another baby then I'll be booking in for an elective c-section. Healing time is a bit longer, but it's so much easier!!
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Posted: 03 October 2006 at 10:21am |
Nelson Chick, I had the shakes all throughout. I was told it was because I had been given a high dose of drugs to get me ready in emergency time. Planned c/s' apparently don't get that.
When #2 looked breech right up to 38/39 weeks, I was really freaking out that I would have another emergency c/s and didn't think I would be able to cope with that. I nearly booked her in for elective just so I knew what would actually happen, instead of the emotional rollercoaster thing. So... I guess it could be good/bad either way. But the c/s itself is not a big deal.
I did go ahead and have successful VBAC with #2. That was mostly because if I had 2 c/s' I would never have the choice again and I wanted more kids, so I thought it would be worth going for. The recovery is much longer for c/s and I wasn't sure how I could do that with toddlers to look after.
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Posted: 03 October 2006 at 12:35pm |
I had a elective C-section (breech) With my third and I was so upset not to mention absolutely terrified that I was going to be awake but it all turned out to be so unfounded. The anaethetist was the nicest person I have ever met and went out of his way to make me feel comfortable. I cried as they were putting the block in not because it hurt as i can't remember any pain but because I was so scared. Being able to see your baby as soon as they are born is wonderful, as opposed to having to wait until you are awake. I think it's the fear of the unknown more than anything but If the need arose again i wouldn't hesitate as I now know what to expect. the theatre staff were wonderful as well and let me know exactly what they were doing.
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Posted: 03 October 2006 at 12:52pm |
Yeah I honestly keep looking back and thinking if I didn't have such a wonderful anaesthetist, the whole situation could have been completely different. The theatre staff were all really, really great. One of the girls held my hand and told me that my baby was beautiful and told me what they were doing with her while hubby went off with bubs. Everyone was SO ultra nice!
Oh and one other thing, I don't feel any less of a mother/woman because I had one. Some people feel a bit distanced from bubs after a c-section but that was never the case with me.
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Posted: 04 October 2006 at 10:01am |
As you know I had an emergency c-section 2 on honestly by the time they told me I'd be having one I was so relieved!!
The anaesthetist was my best friend!! The surgeon was so loverly!! They made sure I knew what was happening the whole time and I felt really looked after.
As others have said you feel no pain only pressure...I like the quote of someone rummaging around in your tummy...it is a really odd sensation but not all uncomfortable and I didn't it unpleasant at all either.
B sat right by my head and we just talked about how we were going to see our little girl real soon and what we though she would look like.
B looked so cute in his scrubs I'm just sorry no one got a photo!! He felt like was off Scrubs though I thought it was more like Grey's Anantomy!
I also got the shakes real bad which was the least pleasant part of it but once I was out they gave me pethodine which calmed it right down.
I understand you being worried...I was!! But honestly there is nothing to be worried about at all!
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Posted: 04 October 2006 at 10:32am |
I had a C Section because after a 48 hour labour Zaara refused to come out (head was facing up). But it was all so relaxed. I was against C Sections but when it came to safety of my child I said yes!!
Yes it is weird that you are awake...but honestly I only felt the tagging and then felt like a POP and next thing is Zaara's cry...which was the best thing ever. If you cant give birth naturally then this is the next best thing. I did not wanna miss her first cry!!
The team was great....the anaesthetist was great...I kep asking him...is every thing ok? how are they doing? and he smiled and told me all is well. And then the Doc started to talk about cricket and involved my hubby (the biggest cricket fan ever)...I was thinking "hello concentrate on me please"...but no it was very relaxing! and great for hubby because he was a bit on the edge!!
The doc squeezed my hand at the end and told me well done! So that was lovely!!
Recovery wise I say it was great, I was up the very next day and walked out and to baby factory in the next 3 days!! My SIL in US gave birth to a very large baby and she was tiny, she had loads of stitches and could not walk for months...she was in soooo much pain. So compared to that.....C Section was great!!!
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Posted: 04 October 2006 at 11:40am |
Hahahaha yeah my surgeon started talking rugby and at one point he said 'my GOSH she's got a HUUUUUGE butt' as they were tugging her out hahahahaha!! So it was relatively relaxed lol.
At the beginning he said to me 'can you feel anything?' and I said 'yeah' and he goes 'what can you feel?' and I giggled and said 'oh just a bit of pressure' and the whole team of people who were in there just about fell over with laughter. I guess he'd already cut me open by that stage! The only thing I avoided was looking at the huge bright theatre light because it was reflective, and I could see the red from the blood. I'm so not good with blood!
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Posted: 04 October 2006 at 12:13pm |
I could not see a thing....mind you I wasnt even trying!! My hubby could see every thing but chose to keep his head right down so that he didnt...he is not too good with blood!
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Posted: 04 October 2006 at 12:49pm |
They put a huge screen up over my chest so B would have had to stand up to see anything. And lucky the light wasn't reflective at all.
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Posted: 04 October 2006 at 2:06pm |
I had an emergency c section cos bubs was distressed and his head would keep bncing back up with every contraction.
I was so scared I was shaking but everyone was so good. I had had an epidural so I was totally numb. I cant remember if tehy gave me anything else to numb me. I remember them spraying some cold stuff on me and to tell them when it felt ice cold. I had a cloth hanging in front of me so I couldnt see and I just spoke to my partner while they did it. It honestlly just felt a little weird with the tugging. NO pain what soever. It was just the recovery I didnt like but then again it was longer for me as I had a turn (due to high blood pressure) days after csection. and ended up totally bedbound for a few days, Next time I think I will definately have a csection.(as long as I dont have any health issues) See baby so quickly and its all over just like that.
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