My turn now ... (warning long)

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   We were a day off 12 weeks & I had been spotting very lightly whigh I thought was odd as had not had this problem while carrying either of the girls, mw was really good said it does happen to alot of women with no problems, she asked if I felt like I was getting my period or felt heavy which I didn't.  So we booked in for a 12 week translucency scan (was able to get a cancellation that day but the bleeding had already changed got heavier & was passing clots (sorry if tmi).  When we were about to go in for scan I was in the toilet & the nurse said to my mum I hope she's not emptying her bladder & mum told her that the spotting had turned to heavy bleeding.  So we did the scan which showed nothing, she did an internal scan where she could see where things had been happening, but alas now sign of any baby left.  She was very nice about it all and said that sometimes the baby doesn't even form properly it may have just taken a while for me to mc.  As I said to her with the amount of time I had spent on the toilet that day I would be surprised if there was anything left!! 

My mw called me again today to see how I was going & said things had slowed down but there was still a few good sized clots coming thru, so she is referring me fo cwh for a scan to check that all has passed, would rather not have d & c  as healing will be quicker without one so hopefully all goes well

As I only joined here after the birth of Anastasia and havn't talked about my past much, very few will know that this is my 3rd mc, the other 2 occuring 1 each before my pregnancys with the girls, main difference being they were very early bout 5 & 6 weeks, so we had told everyone thinking we were safe but nevermind we will get thru this one also & hope to follow my previous trend I got preg 3 mths after 1st mc & next month with 2nd so hopefuly body just doing a "cleanout" before carrying to full term again.

Thanks for listening/reading  