So confused

Ok, its probably a part of the grieving process but I am so confused as to what is happening. I am in information junkie and possibly have been reading too much. I need it all simplified as the various descriptions of complete miscarriage, incomplete, missed etc all start to blend in together.

Also, if my GP did an internal, would she have checked that my cervix was open or closed? SHe did swabs and I know she felt around to see if I had more pain on one side or the other in case it was ectopic but she didnt mention anything about my cervix.

Stupid me didnt ask enough questions and I cant see her again till tomorrow and I know I will feel like I am wasting her time.

But I need to know this is 100% over!

Yep, I think I need to stop with google (I tend to only read the ones I want to as well...not a good literature reviewer am I).

I try to tell myself that it is over (and if it isnt..well bonus) but honestly I thought I was dealing better.

Man this sucks!!!!

I haven't had an internal at all and mine is a far more complicated mc than most.

Google is evil - leave it alone! lol

Ask for bloods when you see your doc, that is the best way of knowing what it happening. Your hormone levels will tell you for sure what is going on.

I also read in your other post that you are concerned about not bleeding tons. I didn't either. I went through 4 pads a day but only for a couple of days and I only changed them because I went to the loo so figured I should. This was what I considered heavy but it wasnt really (I just have light periods so it was heavy for me)

Just a thought. Can you ring the docs and ask for the blood referal form thing today? And get the first lot done today? That would speed things up by a day (which is very very good, waiting sucks ass!). Because you would need to get 2 lots of bloods done anyway to see what those nasty hormones are doing to ya. My docs are always fine about this type thing because you don't need to see a doc for that part, they only need to sign the form, and the nurse fills it in (or at least that happens for me)

Edited by kebakat

Great idea guys. I just rang medical centre but they dont know their arses from who knows what. A nurse is going to ring me back. I was pretty disappointed with the medical centre as a whole. When I did my first PG test I got comments like "was it planned?" However the GP's first comment when I saw her was "6 weeks, huh? Cool!"....I like her.

dont worry chick - I did exactly the same when I had my m/c. It's natural to want answers but as my DH says, the internet can be evil and make you have more questions than you actually had to start with!

just waiting on bloods as we speak. My MW called me last night and she agrees with the need to follow up on what seems to be a very inconclusive MC. She even mentioned scans etc. I am just pleased that someone is taking me seriously about needing to KNOW its all over...and wanting proof.