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Danaj 
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 6:33pm |
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Odd question I know,
What do you do after you do the deed? When not TTC I went straight to the bathroom to avoid bladder infections. Some one told me you should stay in bed and slightly raise your hips. Is there anything I need to do after to help our chances?
I've only been off the pill for 3 weeks and finished the withdrawal a week ago. I've read I can spontaneously ovulate around this time. Anyone know if this is true? I haven't started charting yet.
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 6:55pm |
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legs up the wall!
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 7:09pm |
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i just layed on my back for 20mins with a pillow under my hips some nights and not others.
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 7:54pm |
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I did the pillow under my hips thing when we were TTC the gremlins, not with this one tho!
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:01pm |
I was like you and always went to the bathroom after sex to avoid UTI's, I continued to do that and still got pregnant pretty much the first week we decided that we would go with the flow  even though we weren't actually trying just yet! We thought it would take atleast a year!
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:14pm |
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I never heard of the pillow thing until after I conceived - all 4 times lol - always went straight to the loo to 'clean up'
pill withdrawal? what's that?
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:40pm |
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Hi Busymum. I meant to say Withdrawal bleed. Been on the pill 15 years. 3rd generation too. best to be off it either way.
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 9:03pm |
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All times i have just stayed in bed for awhile (i think lol)..
First one, im sure we were in some weird postions with me lying off the side of the bed..tmi lol...and then probaby stayed in bed.
2nd one...was a whoopsy so dont know lol
3rd one...just staying in bed...
I've never had a uti after staying in bed after sex and have stayed in be all night on many occasions.
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 9:12pm |
Absolutely nothing and it worked for us 
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 9:49pm |
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I just rolled over and went to sleep! Or if it was day time, just lay and read a book for a while. I didn't know about the pillow under the hips tho... I got pregnant our 2nd month of trying. Hope it happens quickly again this month!
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 10:07pm |
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Also, having an orgasm after the sperm is on the cervix is supposed to be good because it makes the cervix open up more.
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 10:08pm |
 Danaj wrote:
Hi Busymum. I meant to say Withdrawal bleed. Been on the pill 15 years. 3rd generation too. best to be off it either way. |
Woah I thought you might have been referring to a long stint... thanks for clarifying
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Posted: 29 March 2008 at 10:43pm |
A lot of January mums did the pillow under the hips/legs up wall thing and then at the beginning of the third trimester heaps of us had babies in breech position - we all joked that this must have been why 
only my critter stayed that way until birth though so never fear
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Posted: 30 March 2008 at 1:51pm |
rachel25 wrote:
I just rolled over and went to sleep! Or if it was day time, just lay and read a book for a while. I didn't know about the pillow under the hips tho... I got pregnant our 2nd month of trying. Hope it happens quickly again this month! |
Ok so I'm jealous over the day time BDing, lucky you.
Good Luck this time.
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Posted: 30 March 2008 at 4:51pm |
Hehe, yeah day time BDing only happened in the weekends! Lucky for me I happened to ovulate on the Sunday the month I got pregnant so we spent that whole weekend in bed, lol! Great times
Good luck everyone else too!
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Posted: 30 March 2008 at 4:59pm |
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I'm so jealous. I would love to ovulate in the weekend!
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Posted: 30 March 2008 at 6:57pm |
Oh I just remembered, also the month I got pregnant, I used Robitussin. There's an article about it here
wohoo I worked out how to do a link 
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Posted: 30 March 2008 at 7:12pm |
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How often and how much robitussin did you take rachel?
I also read an article about some bad side effects while taking robitussin while ttc....did you ever read that?
I'll try and find the article.
Edited to add: I remember the exact article I found, but there is heaps online if yo google it...robitussin and birth defects brings up quite a few.
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Posted: 30 March 2008 at 7:19pm |
Hi and good luck ttc
Now I NEVER STAY in bad after sex personally because I had kidney reflux as a child and have reoccurant UTIs ALL THE TIME and eveerything sets it off so I practically run to the bathroom because I will pay then next day lol. Anyway I concieved 2 times without doing the whole hips raising thing but they do suggest it. I got told that you should noy elevate to high other wise the sperm parks up on the cervix, dnt ask me how true that is either lol. I listen to alot of hearsay hehe.
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Posted: 30 March 2008 at 9:01pm |
Yes I did read about birth defects with Robitussin, that's why it's important to get one that has ONLY guaifenesin in it, and NO Dextromethorphan. I stood in the chemist for about 30 mins lol, reading all the labels, and the one I got, I made sure it only has guaifenesin as the active ingredient. The one I have is... *goes to check bathroom cupboard* Robitussin EX Chesty Cough.
And I just took 1 capful (think it was 20mLs but could be wrong... Maybe it was 10mLs) twice a day from about 5 days before I was due to ovulate. The article says all about when you should take it.
Anyway, it's not for every one, but it helped me to conceive
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