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Nefertiti
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Topic: Bigger Mummies Posted: 24 May 2008 at 11:44am |
Well I couldn't think of a better title, but if your like me you have a nosey in every thread anyway lol
I am wondering how many other preggy mums are out there that are bigger ladies. I still have weight from 3 babies, and have the dreaded overhang tummy. This makes me very self conscious! This is also the biggest I have every been when falling pregnant. I feel different with this pregnancy. Probably because I felt I looked pregnant beforehand!
So I'd like to chat to other woman who are in this situation.
I look at the lovely pictures in the baby bellys section and feel so envious as I won't be showing any pics of me....probably not until about 38wks anyway lol
If there aren't any other ladies around on this forum, I'll just hide in the corner blushing lol....this has taken a bit of guts for me to post this :)
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LeahandJoel
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 12:11pm |
Don't panic, your not the only one who is bigger, or with the overhanging tum either!!!
I had just got rid of it and bam pregnant again and instantly it came back! I hoped I might be able to take some belly photos this time but at 26 weeks I don't look pregnant, just sort of round! So now the two of us can sit in the corner together but at least we will have someone to talk to.
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 12:15pm |
Thanks Lisa. I wish I had got rid of mine! With my first preg I put on 21kg and most of that was fluid, but then got quickly again, and with the stretching of the skin, I've never been able to lose it :(
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 12:30pm |
I'm a big gal aswell but this is my 1st pregnancy so cant use that as an excuse. I am already self conscious about my size and I dont think I will get a nice round belly so I'm going to look even fatter
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 1:31pm |
You might be surprised leelee. i am a larger lass and i definitely looked pregnant. it will all depend i think on how you carry . some skinny ladies dont look pregnant either... i think my overhang now is worse after having a c section with my last and i dont think it will ever go away. and out of 3 pregnancies i only ever posted one belly shot on the board, and that was this last pregnancy and i was almost full term.
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 1:43pm |
im a bigger mum too!! i was my biggest ever at the end of this last pregnancy... i felt yuck but i did look pregnant not just bigger  i'm a bit down about my weight at the mo (post baby) but hangin in- knowing it hasnt been long since bubs and knwing there is more to me than my size, cant help but feel self consious though its something i hate about myself, how mean i am about my body... hopefully one day i will change so that i love who i am
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 1:58pm |
well i posted heaps of belly shots so bigger girls wouldn't be scared:) i was proud to be pregnant like everyone else so i posted!:) i think i looked pregnant too ..i was 106kg when i started (96 now)
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 2:28pm |
Pick me! I put on 23kg having the gremlins and didn't lose any of it before I got preg again with this one, which is entirely my own fault!
I have the overhanging tummy, and I also have the strangest shaped bump you ever saw. It has a dent in the middle so it's not really round. It looks like baby is really high when in fact she is actually sitting really low.
This is me at 28 weeks with this bub, but the top does kinda disguise the hanging down, funny shaped tum.
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 3:42pm |
ok iwas 96kg wen i got preg with this 1 but still had the tummy from my previous pregnancies but my boys are nearly 7 and 5 so again my own fault i had long enough to lose it...i am lucky i guess cause my tummy started poking out and tightening up quite early on with this 1. i posted pics the other day in the belly thread and am only 18 weeks and feel about 30 lol hopefully the growth slows down or ill definately be bursting by the end of it all.
dont stress bout being bigger as someone else has said it all depends on how you carry.
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 3:57pm |
Lol Emma (ps: Where did you get that top - I WANT IT!)
I'm the same - I have a dent in the middle cuz the good old spare tyre doesnt go away when you're pg - it just stretches and goes all funny :P My tummy looks like an upside down egg cuz my 'little curtain' bit got all pushed down to the bottom hehe.
I didnt *look* pg til I was hmm... 20+ weeks?
Never be ashamed or feel stink about how you look, all pg ladies are beautiful no matter what size you are!
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 4:10pm |
This is baby number 3 for me pregnancy number 9 tho. I was 95kgs when i started with this baby and im only 163cm tall. I had abit of a tummy befor i got pregnant with this baby but my weight is everywhere. I have posted a pic of myself on page 36 of due novemebr thread. It doesnt look to bad as my legs are hidden. I am 20kgs bigger with this baby as i gave up smoking a few month back. I am finding this pregnancy alot harder on my body.
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 5:22pm |
I am so glad this thread has started
I'm a bigger girl too and I lost 10kgs on WW and now I'm pregnant! I had lost only quarter of the weight I needed /wanted to lose, so I feel that I'll just look fat, not pregnant when I start to show.
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 6:37pm |
sonyaw wrote:
dont stress bout being bigger as someone else has said it all depends on how you carry. |
Totally agree its the one time in your life when all women look beautiful.
And I prefer beautiful voluptuous preggy mummies better than skinny minnies, IYKWIM.
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 6:50pm |
MissAngel it's a K and K one, I got it at their outlet store at Dressmart.
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 7:05pm |
Thankyou everyone! Its nice to hear that there are others in the same boat as me.
I also like your top Maya....and you far to relaxed to have twins lol
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 7:08pm |
I'm another bigger mum-to-be  I notice now that I do look more like I have a pregnant belly but only when I wear certain things. I lost weight before getting preggers and am so pretty conscious of not gaining to much weight, although I have had like 5 peices of cake today
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 7:13pm |
Nefertiti wrote:
I also like your top Maya....and you far to relaxed to have twins lol |
Don't be fooled! This is a madhouse!
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Posted: 24 May 2008 at 7:26pm |
I'm not currently pregnant, but i thought i would post anyways since it wasn't that long ago that i was going through the same thing..
I'm a larger lass, and had lost 20kg before my 'whoops' baby was conceived thinking... GAH, why did I bother loosing the weight? I gained 21kg during pregnancy  But now I look at my daughter (now 7 months) and she was definitely well worth the hassle..and walking her in the pram everyday (sometimes twice a day) is quickly helping me loose the weight... and even though I have a horrible scar and a 'curtain' now it's well worth it to see the outcome
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 11:05am |
Here's one of mine:)
maybe there's something wrong with me..I'm not ashamed to post this either:)
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Posted: 25 May 2008 at 11:29am |
Here's mine...
16 weeks 6 days and BARELY showing
36 weeks 5 days
39 weeks 1 day
And 40 weeks 4 days (what we THOUGHT was D Day, but she didn't arrive for 2 more days)
LOL excuse the facials in the last 2 pics... I just wanted her out by that stage 
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