Hi all, me again!
DH just told me tonight that friends of ours are going through the testing process (both of them) to figure out their fertility issues. I kind of knew they would be trying but didn't realise it had come to this point. She has the same issues as me (PCOS etc etc) but seeing as I conceived so easily we just light-heartedly said she would too.
Now we are trying for #2 and it looks like having Jack may have made me ovulate a couple of times already (yay
) but I really hate the fact that we could get pg with #2 before they even get pg with #1. They are the nicest couple from huge families and they would be the best parents. The guy even said to DH 'if you have an extra kid at any stage, we'll be happy to take one cos it's just not working for us'
I've never had to think of how to be supportive IRL to a friend going through fertility issues, but their yearning for a child makes me so sad I've been bawling my eyes out (hormonal methinks!)
Anyway, if you're still reading this
, how can we support them while still going about our dream? If you have been in this situation either in my shoes or our friends' shoes, what is the best advice you can give me?
Seriously, if I could help them in any way I could. I really struggle when I can't help people, in fact this is the first time in my life I haven't been able to help friends or family with a problem they have.