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Hey Bells welcome.....So sorry to read of your MC. Must have been really hard.    My DH has a really low Sperm count as well. I million at last test (I think normal is 80mil and over) so I was really down for ages when we were TTC about 3 years ago, but I little swimmer must have made it cause we have now got a gorgeous little almost 3 year old little girl after 18mths of trying.   We have now been trying for no 2 for enarly 2 years and have just started another cycle of clomid.

There is heaps of support on this site so whenever you are having a down day come on here......the girls are really wonderful.   All the best of your journey to get your BFP

If you want a story of hope, I will give you mine, although it is not because of dh in my case...

I am 24yrs old, and I was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure about 18mths ago (basically you stop cycling, also called premature menopause). DH & I had been married for a year and a bit, and decided we were ready to try for a baby, so I came off the pill. My periods never returned. The diagnosis given when I finally went to the doctor was somewhat unexpected and devastating! Was given only a 6-8% chance of ever having a kid. We thought long and hard about using an egg donor, and decided not to in the end but to leave it in Gods hands. A couple of months after we made that decision, my period returned and we now have a 2wk-old baby!

Both of us would like more kids, but for the moment we will just have to wait and see what happens. As it is, we have been truly blessed!