Hey Oxy, I'm the same as you and it's so frustrating
If you're charting and taking ovulation tests and think that you're ovulating and doing the deed at the right time you're probably not doing anything wrong, your body is just being disobedient like mine
Have you been to the doctor yet? It might be a good idea to get the routine tests done for you and your partner to check nothing is physically wrong, just in case there's something you can get done. Otherwise come hang out in the other threads with the rest of us as we all know how frustrating TTC can be.
If you're charting on fertility friend you could add your chart to the charting thread too and we can all check out your chart and you can compare yours to ours.