Thanks you guys. I actually feel the same way about having the cot up. It definitley makes it harder. Tonight I went to put her to bed and she pointed at the cot and said 'me some

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Anyway, the good news is after a terrible naptime earlier today with lots of screaming and me putting her back in bed at least a dozen times, tonight she has gone to sleep in her big bed with only a minimal (2 minute) fuss about it

She is such a legend - honestly I can't believe what a good girl she is. It must be such a hard thing being put into a new situation after 2 whole years of her cot. I expected it to be rough for weeks, but as usual she is handling it really well