Hey guys thought Id fill ya in on the situation with my little sis.things arent too bad.we are at least talking and have both agreed that we both got to make the effort.and Ive come to understand that everything was not all "MY" fault.Was a very upsetting time and thankyou all so very much for your support and advice.I made huge effort to show my sister I was sorry and loved her(flowers etc) and have made more effort with her (inviting to luch yest but she was busy) so Im just going to leave it to her now.At least she doesnt hate me.....I couldnt live with that.Anyway Im not letting it upset me at all now...we will see how things go and if we ever build a good realtionship then great and if we dont then at least I no I tried. Anyway thanks again you lovely ladies