New Posts New Posts RSS Feed - curly haired toddler - haircut?
  FAQ FAQ  Forum Search   Events   Register Register  Login Login


Forum Lockedcurly haired toddler - haircut?

 Post Reply Post Reply Page  12>
Author
ange221 View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Christchurch
Points: 498
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ange221 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Topic: curly haired toddler - haircut?
    Posted: 01 September 2010 at 2:36pm
So I am blessed with a curly haired toddler. My question is when to get the hair cut.
The back and sides are quite tight curls but the top and front are now starting to hang in her eyes. I do want to grow it a bit longer but because the back has such tight curls the top looks wild and the back just doesn't seem to be getting any longer (just tighter curls).





I normally put the top into a top knot with a hair tie but I'm a bit over the pebbles look.

Any advice appreciated.
Back to Top
Sponsored Links


Back to Top
kiwisj View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 02 June 2008
Points: 2434
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote kiwisj Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 2:44pm
Awww CUTE!

My toddler has a curly mop too He is 21 months and I haven't cut his hair yet. We don't have the hair-in-the-eyes issue though. I did notice that when we came home for a visit and there was no humidity that C's hair wasn't quite as springy.

My neighbour's wee girl is 3, they've never cut her hair. They use leave in conditioner to keep the curls in ringlets and stop knots. You could try that to see if it encourages the top to curl more? Otherwise trim the front as taking some of the weight off may make it spring back up as well?
SJ
Callum - Dec 2008
Daniel - Oct 2010
Back to Top
Guests View Drop Down
Guest
Guest
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Guests Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 2:48pm
NO DON"T CUT IT !!!!



DD has gorgeous ringlety hair and i've trimmed her fringe twice now shes nearly 2 1/2. Curly hair looks best a bit wild IMO

Try clips on the sides or a headband if she'll leave it in

Edited by misscheeky
Back to Top
tishy View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 17 August 2007
Location: Wellington
Points: 3941
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote tishy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 2:52pm
Both my twin girls have curly hair. One has loose 'shirley temple' curls and the other has really tight curls.

With both of them I got it tidied when the hair was quite short. It just looked uneven to me and I wanted each of them to have one good tidy up.
DD with the loose curls has had 2 full haircuts in a year and a few fringe trims in between. While the other only got her first haircut just before she turned 2.5

That pic is gorgy of your DD btw
Back to Top
tishy View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 17 August 2007
Location: Wellington
Points: 3941
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote tishy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 2:53pm
Oh and for those of you with hair brushing battles, these brushes are AWESOME!

That and sprayed water every morning with no hassles.


ETA: Also curly hair tends to be easy to keep back from eyes. With my DD as her fringe grows it's starting to create new curls so each time we get a fringe trim we're getting less cut due to it not getting in her eyes as much.

Edited by tishy
Back to Top
tishy View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 17 August 2007
Location: Wellington
Points: 3941
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote tishy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 3:02pm
This is the best pic I could find that show's their hair.
Back to Top
ange221 View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Christchurch
Points: 498
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ange221 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 3:09pm
Tishy - cute girls. Did your dark haired girl start off with tight curls at the back? At the moment we seem to have a mixture of the tightness of your blonde twin at the back and looser on the top?
Back to Top
tishy View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 17 August 2007
Location: Wellington
Points: 3941
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote tishy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 3:13pm
Pretty much. Although it was never really tight ringlets, except on really humid days.
Now it's soft bouncy curls at the back so who knows what way it'll go once her hair gets longer and heavier.
Back to Top
HoneybunsMa View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 01 February 2009
Location: NZ
Points: 1724
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote HoneybunsMa Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 3:18pm
Do you have curly hair Ange? I only ask as I think DD's hair is going to go curly maybe not but DP and I both have curly hair so I know how to look after it.

Get a spray bottle with water in it and put abit of conditioner in it and spritz in the morning and finger comb. (I'm meant to finger comb but HATE pulling my curls apart as then I look like the wicked witch)

As she gets older don't brush her hair dry unless your planning on washing, when wet comb with a wide tooth comb to get the knots out preferrably when its got conditioner through it.

Oh and don't wash hair more then every 3-4days as curly hair has a harder time getting the oils to the ends.

Try to clip it up if its in her eyes. Her hair will be getting longer but curlier. The top of my hair I personally think looks YUK and dry and I can never get it to how I like. But yep just let it do its thing. As she gets older and she says she wants straight hair remind her its easier to straighten then curl!


Back to Top
.Mel View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 14 January 2007
Location: Orewa
Points: 9078
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote .Mel Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 3:22pm
Don't cut it yet, wait until it grows out more and see what it does... My boy had gorgeous curls and we cut it a couple of months ago and no more curls...
Mr Mellow (16)
Miss Attitude (8)
Destructa Kid (3)

Back to Top
clover View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 21 July 2008
Points: 2090
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote clover Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 3:34pm
So cute!!

I had super curly hair as a toddler and when it was cut and grew out all my curls went. Mum was very upset apparently.

Maybe trim the front ever so little so it is out of her eyes?
Back to Top
ange221 View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 01 January 1900
Location: Christchurch
Points: 498
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ange221 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 3:37pm
HoneybunsMa - No, I don't have curly hair and neither does DP. DP's 16 y.o. daughter has curly hair though and his mother also had curly hair as a child so it's come from his side not mine. My mother's stoked to finally have a curly haired grandchild after having six straight haired children.

Thanks for the tip on not washing it so often. We are washing it every second day at the moment.

.Mel - that's what I'm afraid of, loosing the curls on top.
Back to Top
TheKelly View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 30 March 2010
Points: 12728
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote TheKelly Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 5:38pm
yeeep , my girl had gorgeous ringlets then SHE cut herself a frigging mullet and no more curls , now its no longer a mullet but her beautiful curls are gone :-(

so don't cut it , maybe use hair clips/head band to keep the hair out of her eyes instead





Back to Top
MrsMc View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 27 September 2009
Points: 169
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote MrsMc Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 6:10pm
dont cut it, its sooo beautiful

From what ive seen if you cut a fringe it either goes straight on the top and doesnt really sit right, or it curls up and looks wrong.

Back to Top
4thtymlucky View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 15 November 2008
Location: Manukau
Points: 169
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote 4thtymlucky Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 6:52pm
They look absolutely gorgeous with their curls regular Shirley Temples..don't cut it for as long as you and the wee ones can handle it, once it's cut it might lose it's "spring" and go straight or bushy
Back to Top
HoneybunsMa View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 01 February 2009
Location: NZ
Points: 1724
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote HoneybunsMa Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 6:52pm
It probably doesn't matter quite so much yet but when she's older if it stays curly then don't wash it as often.

The curls may fall out or they may stick, godsons curls fell out and then it got cut off and no more!

All my tipson curly hair has been through trial an error. I had straight hair when I was a kid and then it went curly.


Back to Top
Jessica View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member
Avatar

Joined: 26 March 2007
Location: Oamaru
Points: 896
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Jessica Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 01 September 2010 at 9:58pm
I am so pleased that you asked that question Ange, Tessa's hair is very curly at the back and sometimes it is dead straight (like mine) on top and then the next it is curly, and now it is getting longer, I have been wondering what to do about it.
Everyone tells me not to cut it but she will not leave cips or hand bands in it and now it is getting longer she is going to have to get over it!
Thanks for the input ladies


Our con-joined boys 20 wk
Back to Top
JD View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member


Joined: 01 January 1900
Points: 570
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote JD Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 02 September 2010 at 3:03pm
Sounds like the consensus is to not cut :-)

My DD (now 13) has very curly hair. It is tight ringlets at the back and underneath, and could be straight at the front and on top at times.

I let it grow and just tied it up at the top. I had it cut/tidied up when she was 3 or 4ish and it looked a bit scragly at the ends.

Because I had to tie it up so much, she got very good at sitting there and getting her hair done which was great. She never pulled out the clips and hair ties because she was so used to having them in there from early on.

I used the detangling spray to get through the knots and that worked well. Also I used to plait it after her bath so it wouldn't be tangled when she woke up in the morning.

Curly hair is so beautiful, but there are some challenges ahead (knots, nits etc).



Back to Top
JD View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member


Joined: 01 January 1900
Points: 570
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote JD Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 02 September 2010 at 3:04pm
aww dumb...Im not sure how to post that picture :)
Back to Top
JD View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member


Joined: 01 January 1900
Points: 570
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote JD Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 02 September 2010 at 3:07pm
take two...


argh...still cant get it to work :(


Edited by JD
Back to Top
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  12>

Forum Jump Forum Permissions View Drop Down

Forum Software by Web Wiz Forums® version 12.05
Copyright ©2001-2022 Web Wiz Ltd.

This page was generated in 1.766 seconds.