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  | Bexta   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: Inappropriate gifts for a newborn? Posted: 27 January 2011 at 7:56pm
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   I'm due to have my first in March and I mentioned to my mother that I have a lot of summer stuff but not much winter clothes.  She sent me an email (she lives in the UK) that she'd sent me a package with some jackets and that she'd bought baby her first fur coat    .  Not exactly top of my "must buy" or even "that would be nice" lists but I thought it might be funny to share if anyone else had been bought things that may not be the most appropriate for a new born.    | 
 
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  | Babykatnz   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   One of DPs mums friends or relatives gave us a MASSIVE pink bunny when Jae was born (seriously, at 19 months old its still bigger than her!) only it has a dirty great hole in the neck seam where the stuffing is coming out... dont think thats particularly safe??
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  | Plushie   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   I was given an ice-cream scoop as a gift for me and the baby...   | 
 
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  | pudgy   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 I was given an ice-cream scoop as a gift for me and the baby...
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 Really ??     Was it from someone who doesn't have children ? 
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  | Bexta   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   Ice cream scoop???  Crikey!
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  | Plushie   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   From my aunt who has a child, yes. It was very strange! Nicely wrapped though.
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  | mothermercury   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   Haha, an ice cream scoop!   We got a necklace (an adult one in a plastic packet) and a packet of baby carrot seeds from a weird friend. They were both presents for Chloe.
 The same friend also gave her an enormous teddy bear, which is much bigger than her, but at least that was a normal gift!
 Poor guy, he meant well but he's a little strange.   | 
 
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  | amme_eilyk   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 27 January 2011 at 9:01pm | 
 
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   my mil gave our daughter a toy that is for a 3 year old....I wonder how I am supposed to still be able to find it in 3 years.....
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  | MrsEmma   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   I was sent over a newborn snow suit for DS, it came from family in Ireland and 'just in time for when he's born'... he was a Jan baby!!!  I still have it though lol    A friend of mine got given a leather NB mini skirt as part of an outfit and she wasn't particularly pleased!
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   Hahaha, an ice cream scoop, now that's original!
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   LOL at the icecream scoop, baby carrotts and leather mini skirt!    Some people are weird and/or have a strange sense of humor.
 We got given a packet of bibs from the IL's. They looked real cheap and I saw them in a $2 shop the other day... I almost feel a bit offended by that. This may sound snobby but this is their first grandchild!
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     Here we go again, another baby on it's way!   | 
 
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  | MummyFreckle   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 I'm due to have my first in March and I mentioned to my mother that I have a lot of summer stuff but not much winter clothes. She sent me an email (she lives in the UK) that she'd sent me a package with some jackets and that she'd bought baby her first fur coat
  . Not exactly top of my "must buy" or even "that would be nice" lists but I thought it might be funny to share if anyone else had been bought things that may not be the most appropriate for a new born.  | 
 Surely it wont be real fur??!? Will be interesting to see when it arrives!  We received a couple of soft toys that have never seen the light of day (in fact I think they went to the sallys) they were cheap $2 shop type ones, and just didnt really want them near baby.  We got a couple of bottles of wine, and a good friend bought me a basket of divine goodies that I hadnt been able to eat whilst preggers (ie gourmet pate etc) but I dont think we got anything wierd!  | 
 
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  | Bexta   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   Knowing my mum it will not be real fur.  Will post a picture when I get it    | 
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 27 January 2011 at 10:36pm | 
 
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|  bowie wrote: 
 I was given an ice-cream scoop as a gift for me and the baby...
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 you sure it wasnt supposed to represnt an over size silver spoon? (things like that were the rage with the older generation for a while)  more as a momento than a useable gift.
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   I gave a friend who had baby in Oct a glass wine bottle stopper, but it was a follow-up to a convo we'd had about people giving us the usual baby stuff despite being on our 3rd & 5th babies. She gave me a gorgeous art glass ball (same range as the stopper I got her), I love it. Weird but we know each other well enough to do weird iykwim. Another friend got a "I'm proof my mum's easy" singlet from some insensitive f*cktard- her partner had left her for an 18yo while she was preggers.
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 28 January 2011 at 6:39am | 
 
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   DS2 was 9lb 5oz...MIL didn't bother coming to see him til he was a month old. Gave us a lovely present of prem sized clothes!!!  Next time she saw him, a couple of weeks later, asked why he wasn't wearing them!!
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 DS2 was 9lb 5oz...MIL didn't bother coming to see him til he was a month old. Gave us a lovely present of prem sized clothes!!!  Next time she saw him, a couple of weeks later, asked why he wasn't wearing them!!
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 Hahaha, classic! 
 Jacob was a bit smaller, but he didn't fit plenty of the NB stuff I'd bought him, it was all a bit sad    | 
 
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 Another friend got a "I'm proof my mum's easy" singlet from some insensitive f*cktard- her partner had left her for an 18yo while she was preggers.
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  | Plushie   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 28 January 2011 at 9:32am | 
 
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   I can't believe you can buy a kids singlet that says that!    Having said that i didnt get the meaning of the 'daddys little squirt' ones until someone explained the other other meaning...
 Bizzy, maybe!! Its not a particularly flash one though, just a standard orange plastic ice-cream scoop. But good thought.
 i was thinking she was trying to get me something nice and people seem to assume i want kitchen implements for gifts. Either way ,its something i didnt have before and i use it so its not all bad news but i did think it was odd!
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 28 January 2011 at 9:43am | 
 
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   my cousin (female) got given a NB sized bodysuit for her 1st born that says "my dad likes pussy" with a cat on it....
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