Disappointed...again

I am 5w6d today and just got the result of my 2nd HCG level this afternoon.

Monday was 13700 and today was 13500. My midwife said "it's not over yet but it is not looking good".

Im so gutted. This is the 3rd time in a year! I'm so sad and angry and fustrated to be going through this again. I have to have another test Friday and then guess will let nature take its course.

My heart goes out to all of us on this thread.
This sux!

(I also want to mention I am extremely grateful I have a son and don't mean to upset anyone who don't have any by sounding ungrateful).

Thank you. Just told DH as he is away for work at the moment. Felt so bad telling him

Oh pikelets, so sorry to see you back here again take carexx

Thanks ladies.

Have any of you been to the Recurrent Miscarriage clinic? Is there one on the shore? My MW said I can get a referral via my GP there now.

Thanks Kazza. I googled it and saw that one too. Not sure why I thought there was one on the shore.

We went back to FertilityPlus a few months ago after our 2nd MC but they can't help us now since we are actually getting pregnant. (we were originally referred through them while we were TTC #1 as that time we couldn't get pregnant at all!). They said this time because we have DS, they can only help with IVF (we pay) if we don't get pg again which is not what we need now.

This TTC journey is so fustrating! I realised the other day I started TTC 7 yrs ago and luckily I have DS who is 4 soon but it has consumed a few years now!

As you have a child already too, do you mind me asking if you are publicly funded through Greenlane or are you private?


eta - didi thank you, I remember how helpful you were when I had my 1stMC. I am so stoked for you hun! Wishing all the best in the world for this pregnancy x


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Thanks pikelets & Kazza, I honestly cannot believe I have made it this far.

Pikelets I went though the recurrent MC Clinic too and they are really nice there. My MC's where considered "unexplained" as well which is really frustrating but I do not know how I would of stayed sane without the weekly scans, particuarly cause I bleed from 5weeks to just past 9 weeks.
Pretty sure it doesn't matter that you already have a child either as when I left I did ask them if next time round I am just considered "normal" or do I still go through them and they said I can still come to them.

Hi Pikelets!

What an emotional roller-coaster you are going through at the moment!

Fingers crossed things work out and will be thinking of you!

Oh my gosh Pikelets! what a stressful time, are they not able to do a scan for you any sooner?
Fingers crossed everything works out for you

Pikelets, fingers crossed !!!
I know what it's like - really hope you get a positive result.

Thanks ladies.

Kazza, we decided to wait until the end of the week. With my first MC, when we went for the scan, they said it was borderline and wouldn't call it either way and told us to wait another week incase the fetal pole did start beating. I was bleeding last time and nto long after it all happened anyway.

Kelzie - thanks for that I will keep that in mind.

Still no bleeding which is good. Will let you know how I get on on Friday.