TTC after miscarriage/loss

Ladies thanks, I needed people in my corner. As it turns out my doctor called today saying he had spoken to the hospital regarding my follow up ultrasound and that they wanted me to go in. Came into hospital, they said they wanted to do a D&C because lining was still very thick and not happy with the bloods. I am
Not urgent so have been waiting with nil by mouth since 10am but there have been lots of emergencies today! I am first on list tomorrow morning if no more emergencies. I feel relief because it means I can be sure that everything is fine and we can move forward without a horrible "what if" hanging over our shoulders. I feel like a weight is off my shoulders, plus I didn't have to go to the wedding as I have been here. Hope everyone else is well.

Good luck with your D&C today! I ended up needing an emergency one done on Tuesday evening, so great you can get it scheduled in before you possibly end up in my situation. Hope your recovery goes smoothly for you.

Hello, I had a missed miscarriage on March 10th. We went in for our 12 weeks scan and no heartbeat was found. I still get sick to my stomach when I think of that day. The baby measured to be 8 weeks along. I had a D&C on 14 March and here it is a month later and no period yet. We didn't want to wait a cycle and started trying. We've tried about 6 times now and I think it's too early to take a test. I have a rapid heart rate and overall feeling off like I did when I was first pregnant. My boobs aren't sore like they were before. I want to test but I am afraid of the disappointment. So here's to trying again!

Good luck! Don't worry if your stressed about no period yet. My miscarriage was March 14th and haven't had a period yet either (although my D&C was a few days later). Our specialist advised to wait two cycles, but we are trying this cycle also. We got the timing right but I don't have any pregnancy symptoms, I usually have a lot of CM in the two weeks following ovulation when Ive got pregnant.

Seriously good luck to you. Will be thinking of you.

Also, did any of you gain weight after your D&C? I didn't overboard with the comfort food and kept up my regular workouts. It's so frustrating to have an extra few pounds and my belly hasn't gone back to normal. I was starting to show at 12 weeks and wonder how long it will take for the uterus to shrink down. Hopefully right in time for it to shrink back out!
I'm hoping it's just my hormones being all over the place and they will settle down soon. I'm breaking out like a teenager too!

After my first miscarriage it took a couple of months before I got my period back! Second one I didn't stop bleeding for weeks

Hi all. New here. I'm 37 and we have been ttc for 2 and a bit years. 3 miscarriages in that time. 1st was a natural mc and the next 2 resulted in a d&c. Has all the tests under the sun and they thought it was due to a uterine septum which I had removed earlier this year. This was our first month ttc since the op and medication. AF is 1-2 days late but I've been impatient and had 4 negative tests so far. Stressed!

Aw Bonnie it's a rough heart breaking journey! Sounds like you have been at least given some answers to what could have caused your losses! Could the operation have caused your cycle to have been mucked up? Don't panic if it is negative as you now have hope!

Hello everyone I am very new to posting, never posted on a forum before! A bit of background, I am 44 (45 in Dec) and DH is 45 in Oct - I have a 22 year old son from a previous relationship & DH and I have a 3.5 year old daughter together. Took quite some time to fall pregnant with her at 41 but it happened naturally, we were lucky. But now we are trying for one more, we fell pregnant unexpectedly in Sep 2015 and were thrilled, but little bean passed at about 6 weeks, found out at 8 week scan - totally gutted. Ended up miscarrying naturally BUT then haemorrhaged badly the following evening & was rushed in for emergency D&C - awful. I lost a lot of blood so had to get iron levels back and was on supplements for 3 months. Started trying again in Jan this year, tracking cycles and using ovulation tests, still have regular periods every 27-28 days (sometimes 29 or 30) but no luck so far.

Due to age we have a very low chance of conceiving every month, but keeping fingers crossed that we have one more miracle, this is our last chance.

Babydust to all ladies

hello this is very nice topic let me tell you somethingbeing pregnant is always getting many women in depression because they start understanding and perceiving many objects and perspectives in their life from a sober point of view without any masks.. my wife, after getting pregnant few months ago, felt depressed for few days, but you know those kind of depressions that just gets you even better right, but still I couldn't see her in that state (even that she was looking pretty normal) I made her a red vein maeng da and she started to get her mood up:) Anyway, if you feel depressed just know that this is a possibility to get better.

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