Hi MerlinFluff, I've had differing advice from everyone so we've got to the stage of thinking we won't try for a third, and need to put all our love and attention into the two we have. The kids are awesome but push my buttons. I've been on medication to assist with my desire to "yell"
for a few years now. Now also im taking up meditation because I still can get so wound up by the kids' antics. It shows me it might not be healthy for me mentally to have another. I'm too worried about the possible effect mentally, esp if more tired. You've made the decision to TTC and that's awesome. You will definitely need support though. Are you on meds to help too already?