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Topic: Mums with Prams parking etiquette Posted: 23 November 2006 at 4:29pm |
I don't know if it is just me or if others would be mildly annoyed...I got pipped at the post for the last Mums with Prams park today at the mall. I must admit I was a bit put out that it was a family with an umbrella stroller and a toddler who got out of the car almost on his own that emerged. I had my huge mountain buggy, nappy bag and 3/4 sleeping infant to man-handle.
Would anyone else find this frustrating?
If it was me with just an umbrella stroller I wouldn't bother to park there...maybe it's just me though. *shrug*
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 5:00pm |
*Hides the fact that she just parked in one of the baby parks at P&S*
I think the time has come that I can no longer park in the baby parks.
(Altho I often carry Hannah through car parks as I don't trust her+cars... and carrying her from the furtherest park away makes my arms weaken at the thought!)
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 6:00pm |
we dont have thoses praks here in dunners but if there were i would be taking full adavancegte of it
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 6:54pm |
That P's me off too Paws! and if I wasn't so polite I'd tell them so too!
In the whole 4 months I've had Caitlin I've only managed a "Parents with prams" spot once, and regularly see heaps of Parents with big kids use them. I've even seen a lady and her (at least)5 year old get into a car that was parked there whilst the guy was waiting for them in the car!
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 6:57pm |
if there are no other carparks, xmas rush and all, they probably think they are justified, and, in all fairness, they probably didn't see you with everything.
I get really annoyed with peole parking in spaces they shouldn't, especially disabled parks. When they get out i want to say loudly "oh, i guess they do look disabled afterall", but don't have the guts....this is gisborne after all (anyone else see the news last night - scared the crap out of Lewis in the bar at the time)
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 7:57pm |
I have to admit that I have used the ones at the warehouse with Andrew. But if you have ever seen that carpark you would understand, it is horrible and with me being pregnant and having Andrew with me I feel I can use them. My DH was responsible for making the PN warehouse change their carparks from "mother and child" to the pic of a pram. He told them that not just mothers go shopping with children. I would be a little put out if someone with a toddler used the park, but being so close to xmas people think any carpark is fine for them.
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 8:34pm |
I'll be the devil's advocate here but a carpark is a carpark and the pram signs are not exactly 'legal' - I mean it's not illigal to park on those and who's to say what age is allowed (unlike the disabled ones where you require a permit). It can be a pain to find any carpark sometimes so ppl will just get what they can - esp this time of the year.
I hope you managed OK Paws.
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 8:40pm |
I don't park in them anymore. Don't think I can get away with it now that Ella is almost 2 and a half. If I was a few months pregnant and had a toddler too, then yes, I would park there.
One time when Ella was younger at P&S some guy in a flash car drove up and pulled into a pram park just before we got there. I was driving but DP leaned on the horn until he got back in his car and reversed out of it lol.
I have to admit to using disabled parks *very rarely* - I usually just park and wait in the car - but it's only one place I use them, right near DP's work - as all the other spaces are full and if I'm picking him up after work I have to run in to get him.. as he never hears his phone when I text.
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 9:04pm |
yummymummy once you have children and all the stuff you have to carry with them you will realise why those parks are for parents with young children.
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 9:32pm |
Oh yeah I managed fine...I also don't mean to sound like I don't think they have any right to park there so I hope I don't sound too much like a narky cow!  (sorry to mums with toddlers if I do!!  )
However...to that young couple who parked in the one we had just vacated the other week and who had NO kids....shame on you! *waggles finger*
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 9:34pm |
I don't currently use "pram" parks, now that Hannah can walk beside me with no problems and Briona is ok to carry from the carpark, I prefer to leave them for ppl with smaller children... with the silent hope that they will do that for me sometime. And if I am with DH, I usually park elsewhere too.
*remembers what it was like at Pak n Save with 2 under 2*
Becks I know what you mean about the Warehouse parking, but I don't remember ever seeing the pram parks free!
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 9:38pm |
I get so mad here as they have heaps of mum & bubs carparks at our local supermarket (about 15 right outside the door) and you can guarantee that half the cars in those parks are either old people or young sinlge men. I have just started using them again now as I'm exhausted and not nearly as community concious in my ill state- I stopped once DD got more independent but I guess some people just firgure they're for mothers with small children and first in first served.
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 9:49pm |
i have to agree with yummymummy - there is nothing illegal about parking in them.
and i still park in there and will continue to do so as long as i have to help my children out of the car.
what should happen tho is all carparks should be made wider. i know if i park next to a car with a carseat in it i make sure there is heaps of room for the driver to get the kid in and out.
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 9:57pm |
I get annoyed with old people using the mums with babies carparks, had a run in with an old guy once when i decided to wait for a park, he shook his head and said no you cant have the park so I pointed out it was a park for babies and he tried to tell me that his daughter and her baby were coming out of the shop at any moment so i told him I would wait, he said no i couldnt so that made me even more determined to wait (car park was chocker) but he put his groceries away and got is wife in the car and drove off within about a minute, no sign of his daughter and her baby!!!
But I must admit even before Addison i still used the babies car parks. Its to dangerous to let Kobe walk through car parks and he is to heavy to carry so Im going to park as close to the door or a walk way as i can. I think from about 3-4 years when they are less likely to run off on you then i would stop using them.
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 9:57pm |
I do agree there gsmum, we have 2 parks at our local countdown and the parks a very wide so there is heaps of room to get in and out.
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 10:10pm |
I think if you still need a stroller then those parks are fair game ...
Botany does tow if no car seat in the car! Guess no car seat means no kid so they are totally justified in that!!
What i would like to see more of is the expectant parent parking - we have like five at countdown botany - and i am going to start using it now i am showing and waddling! But botany only has parents with prams parks no expectant parents ones so i wont chance those at all.
MUm and grandma had disabled park sticker...amazing how many people use them without one! Trying to get a 90 year old of a car with wheelchair in any other park is impossible so no i dont agree with even parking in those for a minute now!!!
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Posted: 23 November 2006 at 10:35pm |
oh yeah, forgot to mention that where I have to park at DP's work, they made 3 spaces (out of like 10) disabled parks and NO ONE (well I've never seen someone there with a sticker in their window) uses them.. fair enough having parks for people with disabilities but it's a waste if it means 3 less parks there with no one using them.. what is even worse is that they are deciding to make these few car parks into a pedestrian park  so I will never be able to park close by when they do that (note I have to pay each time I park too, good old $4 per hour parking GRRRR!
lol
Oh yeah, Bombshell, what if you had a baby in a carseat capsule and you have one of those travel systems and you took your baby + carseat out of your car! would they tow you then?
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Posted: 24 November 2006 at 8:16am |
my2angels wrote:
But I must admit even before Addison i still used the babies car parks. Its to dangerous to let Kobe walk through car parks and he is to heavy to carry so Im going to park as close to the door or a walk way as i can. I think from about 3-4 years when they are less likely to run off on you then i would stop using them. |
Hehe - yeah, personally I'd rather be carrying a massive nappy bag and hauling a buggy out than walking from the otherside of the carpark with a 14 kg toddler (and also a baby bag - these little mongrels are still pretty damn unpredictable) who is also trying to launch herself out of my arms to escape.
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Posted: 24 November 2006 at 8:27am |
Paws was there a chance the people in the car that took that park after you were pregnant? I got scowled at heaps when i was heavily pregnant behind the wheel driving coz i looked young. That was until i got out with my huge bump lol they were like ohhhh hrmm yeh shes pregnant she can park there!
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Posted: 24 November 2006 at 9:02am |
Nope not pregnant...
I just want to say that I'm not suggesting they are any less deserving of the car park but simply if it was me and I had a child who needed minimal help getting out and I only had an umbrella stoller I would just use a normal park....but that's just me.
I guess I was also kind of wondering what others would do/thought.
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