..........R.I.P Baby Nia.........

R.I.P our little angel.
Nia, your life may have been short but you have captured the heart of a nation, a huge achievement for someone so young. I hope you know that not all adults are cruel, spiteful, and hurtful people. I'm sorry that you had to go through so much hurt, so much torment. I'm sorry those horrible people were apart of your life. I wish I were able to look after you and love you.
You are in a better place now, far better than what you had to experience here on earth. Where you are no one can hurt you, no one will ever make you cry, no one will ever inflict pain on your little body. There is nothing but love to surround you.
We see pictures of you with this beautiful smile, yet we know deep inside, you were hurting, and suffering such a great pain, pain that many of us will never know. Now you have been released of that pain, and you can smile once again.
Beautiful beautiful Baby girl, you will forever be in my heart.

Arohanui Nia

I hope those people get charged with murder.

Yeah I saw your post..after I started mine lol. It's just so heartbreaking. How could people be so cruel, so sadistic. I would never want to know what kind of thoughts go through the mind of a person willing to hurt a little child in such a horrendous way.
So unfair, she never got a chance to live her life. But I know that she is in a safe place now. God has taken her in his arms, where she will be showered with such immense love. Love she deserved to have while on earth.
The good thing is that she is no longer suffering, those b@stards can never touch her again, and she is finally free for the physical and emotional pain she's had to go through.
I've just seen some pictures of Baby Ngati, who was the 3 year old boy who was beaten to death by his birth mother and father,3 months after being placed back in their custody, after spending the first 3 years of his life in a loving, caring home with his adoptive parents.
These pictures were very graphic, and I burst into tears seeing this lifeless body, completely covered from head to toe with bruises and lines where he had been beaten with a baseball bat.
Something needs to be done about this abuse, and it needs to be done now. Too many of our babies are dying, all because their parents, family are so cowardly that they have to take out their frustrations on a small defenseless baby. Where do they get off hurting children like that? It sickens me to the pit of my stomach. The children of this nation, and of the world, deserve to live without fear, to be loved and cared for, and to be able to trust us.We are suppose to be protecting their innocence. These monsters that prey/beat down on these little angels will reap what they sow. Whether it be in this life or when they come face to face with our creator, they will suffer for what they did.

Edited by ooEvaoo

It costs us (the NZ taxpayer)$290 per day to keep ONE prisoner in jail. A bullet to the head would be much better.

Leish wrote: It costs us (the NZ taxpayer)$290 per day to keep ONE prisoner in jail. A bullet to the head would be much better.

Or maybe tortured, beaten, hung out on the clothesline, chucked in the dryer & nuked in the microwave just for sh*ts & giggles?
A bullet would be to quick & not inflict enough pain!!
That was really hard for me to comprehend what happened to that beautiful innocent little girl



RIP Nia- no more hurt honey

Awww Eva that is so lovely what you wrote.  Glow I like the idea of the torture, they deserve nothing less.

R.I.P Little Nia

GandT said
and that says to them that what they did is alright.

violence doesnt solve violence

Yep violence begets violence, but what do you do? They need to be reminded everyday for the rest of their lives what they did to an innocent child with no provocation.
This wee soul is now out of the hurt and in a better place(wherever that is), no more pain and humiliation
and I know I hugged Fay just a bit longer last night.
I just read that in Christchurch, Social Services (sorry I forget the NZ name for the same dept) is removing one child a week from abusive situations - what can be done to make everyone understood that violence is never OK? Drugs, alcohol or not?

I agree that violence won't solve anything.
The only punishment that will work on these people would be to have their mana/pride taken away (some people prize this more than their own flesh & blood!) hit them where it really hurts! Put their faces on the front page of every newspaper so that everyone knows the sick people that do these things to defenceless children!

I can't remember if it was in NZ or the UK but the police/justice dept listed names of people who had outstanding fines in the newspapers. Perhaps that's what needs to be done for abusers?
I know there will be all those "bleeding hearts" out there who will say that would be against the rights of those people - well what about the rights of those children that were battered to death by the people who they loved unconditionally? The abusers don't deserve to have any rights as much as those children don't deserve to be subjected to abuse at the hands of those that created them!

Just my thoughts - things like this make me sick!
To be a parent is such an amazing privilidge that is given to a person there's an awful lot of people out there that need to be reminded of this

Edited by Two Blondinis

My nephew was whangai'd (adoption within the family) from a cousin to my older sister. Luckily for us we have had no problems with the birth mother asking for him back etc, which I am thankful for each day, as his young life wouldn't be a happy one. With my sister he has a loving home, a big sister who absolutely adores him, and a mum who would do anything for him. Had he have stayed with his birth mother, he would have been surrounded by prostitution, drugs (including P) and the gang atmosphere.
It's scary to think how his life could have been. He could have easily been another abused baby.
New Zealand has had too many wake up calls. It's about time something is done to protect our children.

Edited by ooEvaoo