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    Posted: 26 March 2008 at 2:52pm
Neither DH nor I want sex at the moment. I know that's probably completely normal especially for me after just miscarrying. But DH doesn't want it either which well is weird for a guy lol. I think our only problem is that well last time we did it it caused all my problems.

How long did it take to want it again?
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Maya Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 26 March 2008 at 8:33pm
I remember crying the first time we BDed after I m'c. It was about 10 days after the d and c, I'd just gotten back from Oz and I think Willie just wanted that "closeness" coz I'd been away for a month and all the emotion of the m/c while we were apart, but I really wasn't ready.

By the time my next AF arrived tho I was ready to get back into it. Obsessed with it even, as in obsessed with TTC.
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We did it the day after i stopped bleeding. I have just been reading the baby loss book that Emma recommended and it says that it is quite normal for one or both of you to be put of sex because of what has happened. It can also work like with Emma where the man wants it for the intimacy. Or for us both of us were ready, we hadn't done it the whole time I was pg either so it had been a while and I like the closeness from it as well.

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I didn't feel like sex for a couple of weeks afterwards because I felt too sad. But after that I was into it.
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Im off it as well but so is DH had me worried for a while there actually


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