MooCow- Im from Gore also, lol and unfortunately she lives in Gore too

I also try and make a effort with her but after what she said to me while DP was out getting me tea while i was in hospital after having DS i just really struggle, i hate going around there that i try and dodge it so much, i go in the end, but hate every minute of it.
Renee & Lauren - Yes this is there first granchild, which they live like 4 mins away from us if that and they never come and see him, we have to go there once every 2 weeks.
my4beauties- Sounds actually like my MIL lol, She is very controlling also, i think im gonna have to meet with her and talk to her about everything and also talk to DP before we do it so we are on the same page, well try to

It's just hard getting him to relies his mother is also very stuck up and controlling and rude. We normally never finish our conversation's about his MIL as it get's abit too messy