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jessiesmum
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Posted: 04 May 2010 at 9:21am |
skp - I think you've made a really good point here especially as you are speaking from experience. It's a good reminder that any activity that advances a child past their own capability should be limited. No matter now sensible mums are, we are busy too and it is easy to get carried away with household stuff while the littlies are contained.
At the end of the day we all want to do the best for our little ones!
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skp
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Posted: 05 May 2010 at 8:05pm |
Thanks, I sometimes feel people get so pissed at another opinion on OB but I only wanted to point out some basic facts. Some mums and dads just don't know that its not good for them - hell I wouldn't have 10 yrs ago!
Why are people so defensive and assume that having common sense is common?
And in my experience - there are many, many people from all cultures that have no clue about this sort of thing, even if there are warnings and advice on a box. You guys must be really lucky to have educated friends.
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WestiesGirl
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Posted: 05 May 2010 at 11:30pm |
Skp I agree with your last post, you make good points especially common sense not being that common. But at the end of the day, opinions are just that, opinions.
I guess there is only so much cotton wool we can wrap our children up in.
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jessiesmum
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Posted: 07 May 2010 at 3:26pm |
Actually I don't think I would be too far off the mark to say that most of my friend's children have spent way more than 5-10 mins at a time in exersaucers. The warnings on these products are open to interpretation and I would honestly not have thought twice about my child spending 20-30 mins in one while I did the vacuuming. I think I'm a reasonably sensible person..
I also wonder about child seats like Bumbo seats and bouncers (is that what you call those little baby recliners??). How can they learn to roll if they are often sitting in one?
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CarrieMum
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Posted: 07 May 2010 at 11:41pm |
My Son had a bouncer, bumbo and jumperoo and he's reached all his milestones no problems. But I knew to limit their use.
I guess its like anything in life, too much of a good thing is bad for you!
I guess people feel defensive as when someone says these things are bad for babies its like saying we're all bad Mothers for using them at all!
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Posted: 16 May 2010 at 8:03pm |
Well at risk of being labelled an ignorant bad parent all of my children have used an exersaucer, definitely for more than an hour a day. It says clearly on label they shouldn't use it til they can sit unsupported, which is about 6-7mths old. None of them were slow to walk or crawl, never have I seen an exersaucer tip over, and none of them have had developmental problems. What problems exactly are we supposed to be worried about?
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Posted: 16 May 2010 at 10:30pm |
Jackson has a bouncer, rocker and an exersaucer and he has met all his milestones with no problem. I have never been worried about him rolling, sitting, crawling etc because the time he spends in them is in moderation
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tictacjunkie
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Posted: 17 May 2010 at 10:36am |
Off topic a bit but I have a friend who when her son was little refused to put him in anything except in a cot or carseat (& frequently told me I was ruining my son's development by using bouncer etc), anyway so after this little chap spent most of his time playing (& crying) on the floor (the "natural" way) he never crawled, only bumshuffled then went straight to walking. Some people can be a bit too precious I think! If baby's happy and mummy's sane I'm all for it.
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NovemberMum
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Posted: 07 June 2010 at 11:59pm |
my son probably spend less than 30 minutes (not all at once) in his exersaucer each day on average.
i think things like exersaucers are only a concern if a baby is being put in them and not been allowed any floor time but hey if they are in it for 15 minutes while mum prepares dinner in the evening (means baby can see mum but still be safe) then I cant see it doing any harm :)
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