I'll add my wee bit in too .... I'm 38 yo, 5'2" & 91kg at about 12wks preg with Ashlyn, I loose weight for the 1st couple of mths preg. I was about 94kg at 9wks with Anastasia and now about 97-100 ish kg. I had an early m/c before both successful pregnancies and one at 12wks last year. I seem to put on about 4-5kg per preg and seem to have lost motivation with each one.
At the moment I am not activly trying to reduce size, rather get my body and mental state back into shape, I have started seeing a naturopath/osteopath (also works with pregnant/ttc women and babies) and at the moment the chemicals in my body/head are all out of wack so we are working on that at the moment. I took myself of AD's at christmas time and things are going good so far and am almost ready to look at councilling for abuse (childhood) to get the mental side of me ready. I have in the past lost weight (like a yo-yo) since a teenager so am trying a different angle this time and would love to start my next pregnancy a bit smaller so I can watch my belly grow as baby does rather than wait till my belly just gets harder from being fuller.