lol we had always said we would start trying when DD was 18 months, however last week we were talking and i said i might like to start trying earlier and DH jumped at the chance! basically i seem to be the one slowing the process down!
He was also the one super keen on first pregnancy, i was still not sure if i was ready or not (i now get that you are never ready).
I agree with Ann, you need to find out what is holding him back, he may have some genuine concerns you can talk about and work around.
We always wante number 2 (DH wanted 3 but I said NO)...we were not going to have a long gap but it ended up to be a bit longer than we planned!
Reason was that I started my new job a year ago and I wanted to really get comfy in my chair (so to speak) and be here for atleast a Year before baby was due...therefore one thing led to another and in Mar this year I said ok...if we get pregnant now I will be due in Dec 08 ...perfect timing...what do you say? He said Yap...and we got pregnant straight away...baby due 10 Dec ....LOL
ETA - oh and #3 is still a NO NO unless he can convince we otherwise!! LOL
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did it take much to convince
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I didn't read the topic properly and thought it said "Did it take much to concieve?"
