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I can't really give advice since my baby hasn't arrived yet, but since finding out we were having a baby we have set some firm boundaries with our dog. He's a bit hyper at times but has quickly learnt that a growly voice means he has to calm down. He's an inside dog (even though he's a lab - we don't have the ideal property for a dog ) and we manage where he's allowed in the house by using gates. He also knows he's not allowed in certain rooms (eg kitchen and baby's room) and he's pretty good at sticking to those rules. He's also only allowed on furniture/our bed by invite. We've also introduced the word "nice" to mean he has to be gentle - and to train him we offered treats which he was only allowed if he took them slowly without snatching. He also responds pretty promptly to "go away". I'm hoping it all pays off in the end - he's a pretty good natured dog anyways (I'm pretty sure he would never bite or be vicious) it's just his size that's the worry.

I'm not concerned about our cats - one is incredibly docile, and the other one just likes to be outside all the time.

Like maebee, I'm more concerned about my mum's dog. She's a grumpy old bitch who has got her way her whole life (even has her own couch!!!) and in mum's eyes can do no wrong. So I'll just make sure I'm always around when bubs is at mum's place.
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What a lovely boarder collie you have, we also have a female boader collie who is now 3 years she isn't huge, she is an inside /outside dog she sleeps in the entrance area she comes inside sometimes but is often on the deck during the day!!!
We gave her one of DD's wet nappies when she ws born so she would get her scent as i was away in the hospital for a long time!!! She is very good with her nice and gentle and DD pats and climbs on her!!!! She does bark when we read DD books.... she has one favourite she goes crazy when we read it !!!! She also gets a bit stressed when DD crys... she barks and whimpers ..... it's likes she wants to protect her!!!! She also jumps on adults and kids bigger than her , but shes never jumped up on DD!!! They are clever dogs and learn things sooo quickly!!!!
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Can't help with dogs.

But we have two cats at mum and dads DD got introduced to them from day2. When she was that little I ended up with the cat and DD sleeping on me hehe.

One of the cats the old male burmese HATES DD even now a year later and if she is about he runs away. My cat just a fat tabby is patient with DD, she has always been the more docile of them I guess and since we taught DD how to pat her although its not as gentle as we would like the cat just lies there. She used to run away and we started off teaching DD how to pat while holding the cat and someone else would hold DDs hand and pat her. Now she doesn't care so much even if she pulls her tail. There have been a few swipes but I guess DD made her feel trapped and as mean as this sounds its something that DD will have to learn to be on guard.


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I have a 2yo Boxer dog who is an absolute nutcase and I was a bit worried that he was going to be too boisterous to have around when Isla was born but he has been great. I just made sure that before Isla was born, we taught him not to jump up and that he had to sit before he gets a pat. Also trained him not to go into her nursery... but he does like to lie at her door while she is sleeping. He is her bodyguard We used to have him sleep in our room in his bed in the corner but decided things were going to be a bit cramped when Isla arrived so when I was about 30wks, we slowly moved his bed every night further down the hallway until it was in the lounge. We did it before Isla was born so he didn't associate being 'kicked out' of our room with her. He now sleeps happily in the lounge, and he will stay in his bed when Isla is playing on the floor, unless I ask him to come over. If I was to pat him he would go nutty and lick me like crazy and try to 'paw' at me but he is so gentle with Isla. She whacks him in the head and pulls his ears etc and he just lies there and takes it. Of course, I'd never leave them together alone in a room cause no dog has ever bitten until the first time......
All I can really say is make sure you don't forget about the cat/dog. Treat them just the same as you always have because if suddenly you stop paying them attention and relegate them to the kennel outside, they will associate this with the new baby and end up resenting the child. If you let the pet be part of the family, they will grow to have a great relationship with the child.
Good luck!
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zoey, they are TOO intelligent collies aye, sometimes they are too smart for their own good, she sounds alot like my boy so hopefully hell be the same with bubs when she comes...

nzlisajo - he also would go a bit bonkers with me especially and does "paw" things (we call it "rucking") when he wants attention and is being ignored....i was always worried hed do that to her coz he doesnt understand or something as it REALLY hurts if he gets skin with those claws...i think ill take everything into consideration and just take it slowly, i dont want to have to give up my furbabies!!




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lisajo - boxers are the best dogs ever

I had a boxer rescued from a home where she was starved and tied up so she was always a bit snappy about her food. I turned my back on my nephew for 10 seconds one day and when i turned around he was outside sitting at her food bowl happily picking up the biscuits and looking at them (thankfully NOT eating them) while she looked on patiently.
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I am worried how my two kittens will react. They are pretty clingy. One cries to be picked up or if he gets shut out of a room, and the other isnt quite as clingy but if you ignore him he is all over you. They got absolutely scared of a chihuahua last week which was half their size and more scared than they were which is hillarious. But they are pretty docile so hopefully they adjust ok.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Marengo Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 16 August 2010 at 1:06pm
i'm also worried about my dog.. partner says we have to get rid of her but i really want to give her a chance with the baby.. she is a sweet natured dog, but very boistrous and can be hard to control sometimes.. i would never leave a child with a dog unsupervised in any case weather it was a great dog or not, i g uess its just letting her know that the baby is part of our family also and not a stranger :)

i'm not worried about our cats at all.. the older cat i'm sure will be fine, the younger one might be a bit scaredy of teh babies noise and things but i'm sure she will be fine.. she has not left me alone sine i have been preg and isnt normally overly smoochie to me at all!!




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We set up the baby's room quite early and had the cot and bassinet out along with the clothes so the cats could get used to the smells. Also put tinfoil on the mattress in the cot so they learned not to sleep in there!

When we brought DD home we left her in her capsule (she was fast asleep) and the cats had a good sniff.... that was pretty much it, they didn't take too much notice of her until she started moving My fur-boy did take awhile to get used to not being able to sit on my lap while I was bf'ing but I just made sure that when she was asleep he could still have a cuddle. No jealously surprisingly!

Our black lab (very boisterous) was only allowed in the lounge anyway, she's always had a bed to sleep in and that's about as far as she's allowed to venture. When DD was little our lab was ok inside & again didn't pay too much attention to DD but once she started moving we banned the dog to outside, she was pretty good, just wanted to lick DD's face really but I never trust dogs around kids.


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