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RicKer 
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 2:07pm |
how old was your first child when you conceived number two?
Im not pregnant but get nervous when DP and i do have 'special cuddles' that i will conceive and i dont want to yet. I cant be on the depo or pill as i react to them and end up in hospital and cant afford an IUD or the chip so its down to just condoms (dr also doesn't agree with an IUD at my age - just 20).
I didn't know where else to put this 
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Shezamumof3
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 2:09pm |
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Caden was just over 5 months old when we conceived Isabella. It was after a oncer too(with no protection)
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 2:15pm |
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Sam was about 22 months old when we conceived Jamie. Oncer, no protection. Sam was the same. I get pregnant disturbingly easy..
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RicKer
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 2:18pm |
Ditto and thats what im worried about. Kyra was a oncer the month after a DNC from my molar pregnancy. And they said my chances were slim! pfft
Im so glad shes here though 
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 2:26pm |
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First time Daniel was about 9 months - straight away once we got rid of protection.
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 2:47pm |
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why cant you get the normal IUD? Im getting mine put in today and i am only 20years old, nothing was mentioned about my age. It is only costing us for the appointment at family planning - will let you know how much that is once we get home if you like.
Kiara was conceived when henry was 7months old and i was on the minipill and breastfeeding every 3hours night and day.
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RicKer
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 2:51pm |
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ooo yes please. Do let me know. The only reason i cant get it is cause my doc says no but if FP does it and i can afford it ill go through them
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 3:08pm |
I'm 25 and I can't have an iud since I've had an ectopic I'm not allowed to have an iud ever so I'd check with your doc to make sure age is the only factor they had for saying no 
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 4:05pm |
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im 20 and im getting an IUD (mirena) gyno is putting it when when im having surgery and a D&C.
im funded for one cos of 10-14day long heavy AF's whenever they want to come.
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TheKelly
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 4:30pm |
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LOL how old was my first ? 6 ..years
Different dads though
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ElfsMum
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 4:42pm |
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my first was 10 months but we mced and second time he was 15 months. had my tubes tied and i still worry about pregnancy lol.
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angel4
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 5:09pm |
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well it turned out to be free as im under 25. I would check that the only reason you cant have it is because of your age. Although the dr at FP did a very thorough background info on me as well so might be worth looking into.
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MuppetsMama
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Posted: 13 April 2010 at 5:13pm |
Our daughter was about 20 months when I conceived, so she will be about 2 and a half when baby is born, which we think is quite a good age gap
As for the contraception thing, we could only use condoms as well but I had a bad birth which left me with scar tissue (had to have op later on), so they HURT! Don't know how you are with them, but we ended up using the natural fertility method, where you count your cycle and only use contraception on the days where you might conceive. Just a suggestion 
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Posted: 14 April 2010 at 5:29pm |
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Our first daughter was 5mths old when i found out i was pregnant again... but was planned lol.
I went through FP for my IUD (copper one) and from memory i think all up it cost around $60 (had to have swabs and smear before they would put it in, IUD only cost $5 and $25 to insert). I loved my IUD until it fell out and i didnt know and got pregnant straight away.
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DD 9 ~ DD 8 ~ DS 7 ~ DS 5 ~ DS 2 ~ DS 14mths ~ DD 3mths
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Posted: 15 April 2010 at 9:01am |
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Jack was 10 months I think, planned. We'd been trying for a while though.
I have a mirena and I've just turned 24. Unless you have other medical conditions, they usually only don't recommend for people before they have kids.
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