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    Posted: 17 July 2012 at 7:06pm
With my 14 month old daughter and I am really nervous! I have heard "horror stories" about cliquey and competitive parents and now I am worried. What has been everyone's experience with PC? also do they expect you to do a lot of courses etc? Someone also mentioned parents being rostered on for morning tea. Thanks in advance for the responses
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Me too! Which centre are you starting? Have you had your visits yet?

I'm nervous about committing my only 2 days that I don't work, but DS loves it there so much and the people are really nice, so hopefully it will all work out!
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I've just started back at PC after moving and my experience has been pretty good. Friendly people, some more than others as with anything.

I don't love it TBH, there's too much time commitment and expectation of completing the courses etc but my girls love it so I'm just gonna do what I have to.

My buddy at the first PC we attended had been going 4 years and still hadn't completed the first training course so it seems you can do as much or as little as you want to, to a certain extent.
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I think different centres have different expectations of you. And as for cliques - maybe, but maybe not. If you find it so, it might be worth trying a different day if you can.

Don't worry, I'm sure you'll love it!

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I've been going for 1 term now and we go 2 days a week I love my centre Course 1 is easy and Course 2 has the incentive of being able to drop off you kid when they're 2 1/2 once you've done it.

In any organisation run by parents there are bound to be personality clashes and some take it very seriously. I've found a couple of Mums whom I get on really well with and that makes it worth while.

DD loves it and I enjoy the parent involvement more than playgroup.

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We've been going for 2 years, I love it and so do the kids, I've made some great friends there. You will feel pressure to do stuff, even at our laid back centre we do get asked, just do what you can at your own pace and don't be afraid to say no.
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like others have said, different PCs can be very different places to be. The one we go to is known for being pretty relaxed about all kinds of things - we definitely don't do rostered morning teas, the only 'compulsory' course is course 1, there is no requirement for 2 days a week, etc. Then there is another one only about 10 minutes away that is completely the opposite.

The culture of a PC is dictated by the parents involved - so if you want it to be a certain way, you have the opportunity to guide things that way. also if you go to a PC and you don't like the way it's run and the culture, then chances are the other parents are going to be of a fairly different mindset to you...

We love PC and I'm really looking forward to going back this week.
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I went for almost 2 years, and the kids loved it. I met some lovely mums there .... it wasn't too cliquey but there were the "long timers" but thankfully there were quite a few new ones when I started too. Some were a bit bossy / pushy but you always get some people you don't get on with so well.

The pressure to do courses, meetings, fundraising, family evenings and lots of extra work was too much for me in the end, as I was working 3 days a week and just attending 1 session. I think it would be great if you weren't busy though, as it can take up alot of time. If you have an understanding partner and kids that don't mind being left home with dad in the evenings you'll be fine.
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and let's not forget that Dads can attend the meetings as well!! He rarely goes to session as Fridays are difficult for him, but he definitely does his bit in other ways.
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I love Playcentre. Im sure you will see a couple of people who are more into playcentre and in charge on the session. Ask them lots of questions they should talk you all through it. Maybe if you know all the ins and outs it wont be so bad :)
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We had our first visit last Wednesday and I was super nervous at first but I just relaxed into it and it was good! My daughter LOVED it, it was so awesome to see her having fun. It wasn't competitive at all and they were all lovely about her being born at 28 weeks too.It wasn't "insta-buddies" for me, but most of the women were friendly enough. We are only going one day a week for a start though, she was really knackered afterwards. We are in Whangarei.


Originally posted by JadeC JadeC wrote:

Me too! Which centre are you starting? Have you had your visits yet?

I'm nervous about committing my only 2 days that I don't work, but DS loves it there so much and the people are really nice, so hopefully it will all work out!
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It differs from association to association on what is expected. Normally you are on a parent help roster which will mean different from centre to centre. I have attended 2 playcentres and it is my kids only form of preschool formal education (if you can call it that).

Parenthelp usually means setting another activity up, sometimes making tea or cofee for the other parents (this differ from centre to centre) and then taking the washing home (tea towels or towels that might have been used)

Normally at the end of term you will have centre clean up and everyone has to help with that. So the centre gets a good clean. Once or twice a year there is a working bee for the outside and normally you only attend one and it is for 3 hours or so (good way to sent your partner in).

Meetings is once a month and normally they ask you to attend once a term minimum. This is when all decisions are made and bills paid. Legally they have to have quorum to pay bills which means a third of all families have to be there.

As for education. You have to have a C3, C2 and a C1 and one or two first aid holders on each session to get funding. C1 is normally just a one night or day thing and do a few practical things. Real easy. Make playdough, set up paint etc. Things you will have to do anyway. So really not scary at all. Few questions that is literally one line answers and very simple. C2 is about 7 course nights but very simple and just take it one at a time and if you can wait for the ones that comes to your centre or to a centre near you. We have a few that has finished that off in a term but some take a year.

And C3 takes a bit more time. You have to have a roll on the comittee for 6 months at least. So take that slowly. But normally you have to finish C1 at a minimum as that teach you basic setting up and facts relevant to your centre.

And then their is commitee jobs that they really wont ask you to do for your first few months. And those things have to be done to run the centre but really some of it is so simple. Just keep on top of sending e-mails or things like that. It is max keeping me busy half an hour a week and that is a huge roll of education officer. Biggest is the one night a term that I do a C1 workshop and another one that we do a homework night for those that want (which works out as cheese and wine night and chatting mostly ;-) )


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