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  | Luckymama23   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Topic: Devastated Posted: 04 August 2011 at 4:28pm
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   Back here again for the fourth time... completely devastated, dont know what to do next...     | 
 
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  | AzzaNZ   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   Oh no    I am so sorry Kazza!
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  | Princess_Bubs   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 04 August 2011 at 5:34pm | 
 
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   I'm so sorry Kazza, life can be so cruel some times.
 Thinking of you and hoping to hear some good news from you in the not too distant future xxxx
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  | Orca1   Senior Member
 
   
 
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 04 August 2011 at 8:11pm | 
 
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   I am really sorry for your loss.  I know every m/c is devastating and can totally relate to how you are feeling.  Take care of yourself.
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      DD born 2008   Oct 2009, April 2010, Dec 2010, June 2011 7 x IVF/ICSI/PGD = BFN
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  | didi99   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 05 August 2011 at 9:19am | 
 
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   I am so sorry Kazza, look after yourself and know we are all here for you if you need us.
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  | Pook72   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 06 August 2011 at 9:40pm | 
 
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   Oh Kazza, I am so sorry that you have  gone through another  loss.  Not fair x
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  | catie   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 29 August 2011 at 1:29pm | 
 
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   Hi Kazza
 Just wanted to tell you I'm so sorry for your loss and send you a big hug        | 
 
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  | pikelets   Senior Member
 
   
   
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  | Luckymama23   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 09 February 2012 at 3:07pm | 
 
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   Cant really believe it.. but here we go again...
 Scan today showed perfect 8 1/2 week bub but no heartbeat     Not really surprised, as the other 4 m/c's have all been between 8-9 weeks, but still completely gutted   Also really angry, its just so unfair    | 
 
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  | monkeys   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 09 February 2012 at 9:12pm | 
 
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   Kazza, I am sorry sorry hun, really don't know what to say but am thinking of you hun, and we are here if you need usxxxx
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  | Pepi-bebe   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 February 2012 at 7:46am | 
 
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   Oh luckymama I'm so very sorry I hear your news. It's so cruel when it's completely inexplicable like that. 
 My thoughts are with you.
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  | tigger,roo   Senior Member
 
   
 
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         Angels - March'11, Nov '10, May '10
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  | Orca1   Senior Member
 
   
 
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   Its very cruel and unfair, so sorry for your loss.
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  | pikelets   Senior Member
 
   
   
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  | Roses are Red   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 16 February 2012 at 10:57pm | 
 
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   So sorry to hear about your losses, have you been tested to find out why you are miscarrying?
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  | Mintyfresh   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 03 March 2012 at 2:29pm | 
 
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   :( I am so sorry to hear that - I haven't posted on ohbaby for over a month so didn't know you were utd. 
 You've had four losses - have you been referred to a specialist?
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  | Luckymama23   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   Thank you for your kind words ladies   Yup for the last two miscarriages we have been under the care of the RPL clinic in Auckland, but all they have come up with is unexplained secondary infertility, which is so frustrating.   Have a follow up appointment with them at the end of the month, so really hoping they can think of soemthing else to try...
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  | catie   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   I'm so sorry        You might find this website helpful: http://www.miscarriagesupport.org.nz/index.html
 good luck for your follow-up appt.
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  | pikelets   Senior Member
 
   
   
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 |  Post Options  Thanks(0)  Quote  Reply  Posted: 10 March 2012 at 6:53pm | 
 
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   I hope your appointment goes well at the end of the month.  Will be thinking of you.
 I have my first appointment (non-preg scan) at the beginning of April with RPL. 
 We had unexplained infertility with DS and know how fustrating it can be when you want answers.  I am mixed this time whether I want unexplained or not! Is it better that something is wrong or nothing wrong??!  Grrr! Life can be cruel sometimes!! (sorry - rant over).
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  | Luckymama23   Senior Member
 
   
   
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   Thankyou Pikelets    Hope your appointment goes well with them.. (most of!) the staff there are lovely!
 Yup I agree.. on one hand if something was wrong at least there would be a reason.. and something to fix!
 But then on the other hand I guess its good nothings wrong?? Grrr, def understand your rant! looks like your DS is a similar age to mine too!
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