Cool thanks for the advice!
KA - I had an appointment twice with the community support lady and she said she turned up and noone was home - lies. Then when she turned up she had no info on Jack etc which I found stupid. Then she said she would call in a month because we were having issues - 4 months later I'm still waiting. Then another lady came around the other day but just dropped off pamphlets that were about starting solids etc?! WTF my boy is 14 months old!
I also don't like how there's no centre to go to and there's basically just a lack of programmes. I think I'll swap when #2 arrives, that way it's a smooth transition and we can just arrange things together (especially seeing as they don't get seen much from now). I just thought their excuse that I hadn't been seen between 5 weeks and 9 months by the community support lady ('database crashed') was either pathetic or just showed the lack of organisation.