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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 11:32am |
I had a look but I couldn't find another thread about this.
How soon after AF is it possible to conceive?? I'm curious and this seemed the best place to inquire  I got pregnant with Jake on the day after AF left  I know this because it was the only possible time it could've happened IYKWIM. How does it all work??
Scuse me if thats a totally ignorant q. 
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 11:42am |
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it depends on the length of your cycle OV usually occurs around the 14th day in a 28 day cycle so a few days either side of that would be no go days unless your aim is bub.
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 11:48am |
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so is a 28 day cycle from the first day of AF to the first day of your next af or how does that work??
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 11:54am |
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yup thats the way i've always worked anyway.
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 11:58am |
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Ok so from day 1 to day 1 was 33 days for me last time so I should just keep track and see what my cycle pattern is??
I def conceived Jake right after AF so how does that work??
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 12:00pm |
Thankyou BTW
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 12:34pm |
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Babe, My friend also concieved right after AF. So not to sure how that works either, maybe swimmers last really well.lol.
Have you thought of charting???
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 12:58pm |
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Babe, you probably ovulated quite a few days after you did the deed, but your DP's sperm was living inside you waiting for the egg!
Apparently they can live for up to 5 days - but in most cases they don't.
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 1:11pm |
Yeah Bex been thinking about charting we were in touch with natural fertility NZ and did the first session but the temp taking fell through the floor (DP kept wanting nooky before I woke up properly and he'd never take my temp first!). I've been thinking of starting up again but kinda been procrastinating. Its really hard to remember to take my temp!!
Ok thanks Ellaroo need to keep that in mind for the future otherwise we may end up with another whoopsie baby 
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 1:57pm |
babe im in the same boat as you- with the not wanting an oopsie thing were waiting for a while and ive jsut come off the pill but we want to avoid pregnancy by reading my cycles..so anything you find out ill be keen to hear too! will be lurking here....
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My little miracle 6/1/2011 My angel in Heaven 9/5/14 
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 3:02pm |
I thought that to begin with to babe, only started at beginning of this cycle, but I haven't found it to hard, I just set my alarm for a bit earlier than I want to get up (6.30am) for me and as soon as that goes off i take it, then I usually end up snoozing until DS wakes at 7.30ish or get up or ......
hope this helps a bit. After we get #2 I am probably going to look at charting forcontraception (pill doesn't agree with me much)
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 3:30pm |
Yeah we were looking at it for contraceptive purposes I'm allergic to everything else!
Toni I can copy the stuff they gave me and post it to you so PM me if you like. We're planning on waiting til Nov-Dec so baby #2 is born after Jakes 3rd bday so I really havta get onto it coz we're just w/drawing now (sorry if TMI) and while a whoopsie would be welcome it wouldn't be the best thing for my body I gotta sort the PND/PTSD first!
Bex I'll be doing the alarm thing lol DP is a morning person though so will have to make rules otherwise he'll wake up at the alarm and promptly send my temperature through the roof hehe oh the perils of having a man desire you....
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 3:46pm |
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Yes babe maybe rules are a good idea.lol. I have thermometer right there so just roll over and take it when turn alarm off, takes less than a minute.lol. my DF almost sleeps right through anything, including his own alarm.lol
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Posted: 21 April 2009 at 4:23pm |
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Will start tomorrow and let you know how it goes!
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