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    Posted: 02 June 2009 at 11:54am
Since march we have been broken into for the 3rd time this weekend.
I was meant to have my last app with my psychologist this weekend after the first 2 break ins in march since she thought i was doing alright nowbut then this happens.
I was just getting over my sleeping problems and now im worse than what i was to begin with.
I am soooo over tired and headachey. i cant stop crying and im going insane.

since march i have been saving hard so we can move (bond+3weeks advance rent...) but then our car broke down last week so down went our savings.

and the one thing that used to relax me the best i cant do. i can no longer have a shower at home by myself. i actually feel like im majorly imprisoned in my own house with every window shut and a bar behind the door and all these security measures we have gone to.

I feel like if something else happens i will be wheeled off to the loony bin to join myia (from shorty)

I work sooo dam hard for the things i have what gives some low life the right to break in and take it as well as my sanity and sleep!

Arghhhhhhhhhhhh
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Oh Jem, that's so awful!
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That Really Sucks! I am sure it is time for some good to come your way!




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Oh No that sux hun thinking of you




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Oh my goodness, 3 times that is insane you poor thing I hope things get back to normal for you soon so that you can feel more relaxed in your own home.

It makes me soo angry that people do this
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We have been wanting to move for a while now but this has just made us wanna move right now. last night we were talking and decided to move this weekend and got kinda excited about it and started a mad search for new flats until we went to bed and realised we need to give 4 weeks notice to the landlord arghhhh i dont think i can last 4 weeks i am sooo tired and exhausted i cant sleep and wake up in the morning feel just as tired as what i was b4 i went to bed.

Now we have to go ask our parents for a loan since we haven't saved up anuf for bond and all that. i am hoping at least one of them can help us
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That sucks bug time. What's the area?

Maybe somewhere like WINZ can help with the move, as it sounds unsafe...especially if you have chidlren.
Or Salvation army.....the mayor in your area umm....I'm sure there are other places.

When I worked at a power company, we were told to suggest places like this and they would often help people that to pay power bills, to avoid getting disconnected.

GOOD LUCK!

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That is awful you poor thing - I felt the same when we were burgled and that was only once! Hated having a shower when I was home by myself and couldn't leave the french doors open either even in the middle of summer.

Hope that you manage to get the money together so you can get out of there.   
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Surely if you explain to your landlord that you've been broken into & are too scared to stay there if they'd let you out early???
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Aww thats awful hun!

I would speak to your landlord and tell her/him that you are really scared and fed up and you want to move out asap, so maybe they can cut it down to 2 weeks notice?

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Hugs to you! I'd talk to the landlord and see what you can come up wit *if the property has a bad history he may not let you out due to having issues with reletting). If you are replacing goods remember DON'T ADVERTISE you have new goods by putting the empty boxes out front for collection. People are so cruel - its just not fair. Good luck.
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