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MissCandice
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Posted: 05 December 2008 at 10:13pm |
Pearls wrote:
Don't worry Kandice - trust me when I say you have plenty of time! You really really really can't rush this kind of decision. |
I wish someone could just get inside my head and tell me what i want to do haha! If only!
I just have no idea at all.
Thanks again for all the replies, you gals are fab!
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minik8e
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Posted: 05 December 2008 at 10:18pm |
My DF at 29 still doesn't really know what he wants to do...but he enjoys doing what he does now, so is happy  I'm not far behind at 25, but still no real idea....lots of different possibilities go through my head and I just work through them slowly until I find something that really interests me. E.g. at the moment I work in insurance, I wouldn't say it's something I want to do forEVER.....but I'm happy in it for now.
Don't stress about it, and then overload yourself, Pearls is right, you have plenty of time!!!
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Paws
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Posted: 05 December 2008 at 10:30pm |
Kandice...you have lots of time to decide something like this...I know of one guy who went in last year who was in his 40's...take as much time as you need to get the info you need. Talk to as many people as you can.
Some people will have sailed through the recruitment...one girl I know went through the recruitment and got accepted without breaking a sweat (then turned it down as it happens!) for others it will require more effort. That's ok though.
And it doesn't matter if you don't have a partner...so long as your mum or someone similar is 100% behind you that is important. And that person needs to fully understand what you are committing to.
I believe it is fair to say, the police is a life not a job...so long as those who love you understand that...you have all the support you need.
It is a hard decision, one my husband and I talked over for literally years before I tried for entry this year. As I say...no problems in taking your time.
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Paws
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Posted: 05 December 2008 at 10:31pm |
Oh and hey, I'm in my early 30's and still trying to figure out what I really want to do if I don't ever end up applying for police college. These days there is no shame in training for something then re-training!
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McPloppy
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Posted: 05 December 2008 at 10:40pm |
I know wwhat you mean...I am 32 and still don't know what I want to do when i grow up.
You could always take a non sworn position if you what to help but not sure about five months away.
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ooEvaoo
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 9:39am |
Yup same here. I'm 24....and only just decided what I want to do...I've gone through many phases since high school of wanting to be a physio, massage therapist, midwife, scientist, nurse.....now I've settled for Occupational therapy!....oh and I'll have the mega master student loan at the end of all this career confusion to prove it!!!..I think we all go through this kind of bewilderment at many stages of our lives! Trust me you are not the only one.
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MissCandice
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 9:59am |
But how did you decide what was right for you?
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kebakat
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 11:04am |
I've been through it too. I even went through 2 years of Vet school and have a healthy sized loan already but now i"m moving into teaching.
I think one of the best ways to figure it out is to take your time with your decision and go spend some time with someone in the fields that you are looking in getting into. That way you can see what the job is actually like rather than just what you think it will be like cause usually it's quite different.
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MissCandice
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 11:29am |
I dont know anyone in any profession lol. I dont really know anyone full stop!
Hmmmm.
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kebakat
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 11:33am |
You don't have to know someone, just give a place a call and ask if there is any way you could come in and spend a day to observe. I had to do this as part of my requirement to enrol in teaching and get an interview for the degree. I didn't know the people I spent the day with but it was fine and I got to see what a day at work was like in the profession. Some places might not be comfy with it but I'm sure you can find some that are
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 2:00pm |
Do speech and language therapy  haha I'm biased
I used to want to be a vet or midwife and then when I decided they were not actually what I wanted to be I spent hours on the computer looking at all of the courses/degrees available and speech therapy just clicked... Sorry, not very helpful I know..
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Posted: 06 December 2008 at 5:23pm |
You can always go and see a careers counsillor ) i went to one at our local polytech, and it didnt cost me anything. I was near the end of my visual arts degree and I realised I just wasnt interested anymore. I did a really long test to see what kind of things interested me and what id be good at. And then I went into a room with him and he went through all the results with me, and we had a really good chat about the sorts of jobs he thought suited me,. He also gave me all the info on how to get into the job etc, and what courses id need to do,
The things that came up were midwife, nurse, teacher, therapist (ie, caring for people) and a few others.
I went to a primary school and taught art there one afternoon a week for a term just to see if i liked the idea of teaching... It wasnt really my thing. So its really good like the others have said, to actually go in and experience things if you can.
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Posted: 07 December 2008 at 12:13pm |
I have been in the Police for almost 9 years and I love it most of the time. Everyone has spoken about what to expect when you are trying to get in but here is a bit about what happens once you are in..
I really enjoyed the 19 weeks at college, I was single when I went down. It was full on so it flew by and we had a week long break mid way through. You can also go home every now and again and if your family ever wanted to come and see you there are chalets that you can book across the road that are really reasonably priced (well they were when I was there).
The best thing that I find about being in the police is that you make brilliant friendships and the camaraderie is unbeatable.
The first year is really hard. You have to get used to shift work, the mountains of paperwork, going to Court, there are uni papers you have to do and maintain a family life, but all of a sudden it all clicks and you start really enjoying what you do.
There is such a variety of things you can do during a shift as someone mentioned earlier. Some of it is pretty grim, but you have some real fun as well. There is nothing better than locking up some one you have just caught who has done a burglary, stolen a car or has been tagging.
Getting used to shift work is hard, but you do get used to it and the holidays you get are awesome (my DH is a cop as well and he has well over 3 months leave and that is not uncommon). It is also nice having days off during the week and when you finish a night shift you get 6 days off where I work. Different stations/area work different rosters so this can change dependent on where you work.
There is such a scope to different things within the job too, I have done loads of different things and have gotten so much out of each thing that I did. I did street policing (in various forms) for 6 years but have worked more enquiry type work and desk type jobs for the last almost 3 and I get just as much out of them than what I did on the street AND I don't have to do shift work! (I don't get the shift work allowance though :( )
They are really pro family life and have a really good flexible employment scheme, for when you come back from maternity leave. I have friends who work anything from an 8 hour day to 3 10 hour days per week and they basically let you work when you want. You also get a monetary incentive for coming back to work after being on maternity leave. They area also understanding about having to take time off if your children are sick.
They have a brilliant super and health scheme - once you have been a member for 3 years they will partially fund IVF (up to about $5K I think) - I think it is the only health care that does that.
When I joined it was something that interested me, but had never been a passion but now there is nothing else that I would rather do (than maybe win lotto and be a lady of leisure lol).
I have gained so much confidence and assertiveness from being in the Police. I used to be quite a shy person and I am still am in some situations, but my friends all said it was amazing how I came out of my shell and that it was the best thing I ever did. You also get a pretty thick skin, there are lots of people who don't like the police and you learn to not take it personally, in fact for the majority of those people I would be upset if they did like me.
Sorry about the novel. If you want to know anything else feel free to ask.
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Posted: 08 December 2008 at 10:01am |
DH is in the police and we find there are pros and cons. But the pros outway the cons for us.
Cons - you work shifts so miss out on things, overtime, court on your roster days off. The biggest thing DH hates is missing out on special occasions that fall on a weekend he works (which is about 3 in 5) and having to go to court on days off which you have planned something.
Pros - lots as gannet mentioned above. Also time in lieu so accrue leave quick, really awesome at supporting family life for when DH needs time off, time off during the week. 6 days off after working 7 nights (can vary in different areas) Cheap holiday homes. Great super etc.
I know a couple of single mums who do it. I personally dont know how they do it as shift work and the type of work is not my cup of tea (I'm a wuss lol) but DH said they cope well and have very supporting families or Mum to help out.
I would suggest you go to one of their seminars (which you can take a support person with you) or if you are unsure as a mum if it is for you, maybe you could try to talk to one of the mums at the station. Im sure they would be more than happy to chat with you.
All the best with your decision.
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Posted: 08 December 2008 at 12:48pm |
I have found this thread really helpful as my DP has applied to join the police. He is still in the initial application phase as he had an accident when he worked as a joiner and lost tip of his finger and needs to do a grip stretgh test first - which we already know he will pass. So trying to get everything organised and hoping for him to be off to college as early in the new year as is poss.
We know we will miss him like mad but there is no prefect time to be away from your family and he will be able to fly back up once a month or so.
Glad to hear so many of you enjoy being in the force.
We went to a PAT rehearsal day and even all the people we met there were friendly as - you get the 'family' feel straight away.
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